Sex Question?
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P.S. We do not use condoms (I am on Birth Control) and condoms are generally out of the question.
Serious answers only please.
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There will be lots of people who lie about how long sex lasts to make themselves look like better lovers (this was actually the basis of research done in France in the 90's) but if you actually go by the real research data the average length for sexual intercourse for a male (from the time of penetration to ejaculation) is under 5 minutes.
Statistically, there are outliers that reach periods of 4 hours or so, but those are on a kind of "bell curve" so they become increasingly more infrequent.
Try looking up the book "Expanded Orgasm" for better information on how to improve this for males and females.
The only way a man can last longer is practice. Another way is alcohol. I used to be like your man, did not last more than two minutes, now I am somewhere between 45 minutes to an hour. Sometimes when I am drunk, I can go over an hour.
hmmm... it depends...
Welllll
You should use Comdoms
Even if on the Pill
You can Still get Prego!
And Get Stds OR Aids
From this man
Who knows how many partners he's had
And Average Guys usually only last like about 15-30 mins!
Depends on what you are doing, but 10-15 minutes for most
My s/o can last a long time.. he usually tired me before he does.. he just went on and on and on...
p/s : he learnt tantric before.
Men learn how to control the length of time they last. There is an old (funny) method of thinking about sports! Really it is practice, maturity (he should be thinking about pleasing you, not himself) and not rushing.
BTW, why are condoms out of the question? What about STD's?
have him rub one out before he jumps on ya.
Depends on their fitness level and exciteability and sensitivity. Condoms are one way of reducing sensitivity, but if it's out of the question, you need to ask if he's trying to please you or just himself. When men orgasm, they often desensitize, and the second orgasm takes longer. Many men are very turned on by vocalizations. If you screamed "ouch, Ouch, OUCH!" You'd probably see a very negative reaction. If you screamed, "more, More, MORE" you probably will see him orgasm.
Condoms should never be out of the question unless you are actively seeking to start a family and are fully 100% sure that both of you are being true. Heck I've been married 20 yrs and we still use them sometimes. But all that said, have him use a c**k ring. It will help a lot.
Every man is different. How long an erection lasts for a man is both physical and psychological and behind this is stimulation, desire and frame of mind.
Also, I disagree with the alcohol thing. That is totally untrue. Alcohol actually diminishes a man's ability to achieve or maintain an erection.
Ok if u want him to last longer he has to learn to control...
If he too excited.. let him slow down & cool off & then u can start again...
But longer doesnt always mean better...
What i mean is u can have a short sex & a massive mind blowing orgasm...Its how much excited u both are that counts in the end...
Get him to do Tantra, its one of the better ways to get a guy to last longer.
On average, somewhere in the six minute range. Here's a study:
http://www.blackwell-synergy.com/doi/abs...
Guys just last shorter than women. He can either go slower or gentler to last longer. There's also the stop and go method, where you go until you almost reach climax, but then rest, then continue. And lastly, he can masturbate 15 to 45 minutes (or anytime before) having sex, and that should help him last longer, because once you reach climax once, it takes longer to reach climax the second time if after a short amount of time.
Well I will be perfectly honest I usually don't last very long at all. I have to agree with the less than 5 minute guy, I believe most people lie and say that they go for longer than they actually do to make themselves look like better lovers. 99 times out of 100 I pleasure my wife first to make sure she gets satisfied and then we take care of my needs, because I am the easy one.
I've read that the average male last only 4-6 minutes. I thought it would be a lot higher but i guess not. To help you partner last longer I would recomend Kegel exercises. These exercised are targeted on strengthening your PC muscle with controls ejaculations. Women do Kegels also after child birth, but they can be effective for men also.
I've been with a guy who couldn't last more than 2 minutes max, and nothing worked to make him last.. maturbation first, c*ck ring, alcohol, stop and go.. it was in and out with him and I never got anything out of it. The guy I'm with now lasts about an hour on average and I often have a hard time bringing him to orgasm because I get completely worn out within 20-30 minutes and sometimes just can't finish the job.. and with him, nothing makes him climax faster. So I think it just depends on the guy.. you might try putting some sort of desensitizing product on him, though, and see if that helps.
either he make some exercise to teach himself to last longer, or use Viagra to make him still hard after ejaculation
there is cream that pharmacis sell is made by: durex is call play longer it helps alot!
the quickest was average 10 min
the slower 40-60 min
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