Question for guys out there. (If you feel comfortable answering).?
Question:
everybody does it different. when i give my guy a hand job, i want make it good. you know what i mean.
please give me some tips.
Answers:
It is more arousing to a guy if a girl enjoys the experience giving a handjob. You should try to maintain eye contact often while you're performing it. Try being playful and giggle too, and talk in a sexy soft voice too, as that's a turn on for guys.
I don't think there's one best technique, instead try to be creative. Incorporate things like lube, ice to vary the sensation for the guy.) The head (glans) is quite sensitive, so you could try touching it gently with your index finger or your fingernails. You could try long gentle strokes with your hand while you're jerking off the guy's penis.
Play with his balls; maybe trace the path of some of the veins on the side of the penis with one of your fingers.
For the finale, when he is about to ejaculate, you could get him close a few times and back him off before finally letting him blow. You might witness a stronger and more powerful ejaculation as a result. You could also make a game of it and get him to c um on a mirror so you could spell your name on it with his penis!
Have fun!
You will never be able to duplicate the feeling of a man doing it himself. He knows his body better than anyone else. The best advice I can give is to ask for suggestions from your subject what you could change to do it better.
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Attitude is very important. Males and females like to be flattered about their genitals. Find nice things to say - you like the way it looks, feels, etc. Soft strokes are nice at first, but after that you can really squeeze (you can't squeeze too much). A little vegetable oil or lube might help, and don't be afraid to use spit. Also, at least take off your top or expose your breasts while doing it. Good luck!
I would send you a video , But i dont think that would be very wise.
We males pretty much all do it the same way...By grasping our penis and stroking it in a up and down motion. Sometimes fast and sometimes slow. Also for a change it can be done with the left hand.
I would touch him very gently, stroking his shaft and balls.
There is no correct way, Jusst have to see what he likes by trying different things
By the way... I think U are GAY Jared.. lol
Try using just the thumb and forefinger and stroke just the glans. Just short little strokes over his helmet. Ever so often make a long stroke or two down his shaft, not often. This will make me so sensitive I want to scream and I'm sure it will do the same to him. Don't stop until he is about to shoot. Wait about 10 seconds for the feeling to subside and start again. He may leak some semen but not orgasm, use it for lubrication. If you don't let him shoot he will get hornier each time and when you do take him over the top it will be an awesome orgasm. Let me know how it works.
Best way to learn this is to ask your man to show you... so you can learn his method. He might need a little encouragement for the demonstration ... but that's all part of the "fun".
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Don't concentrate so much on his "pee hole". It is very sensitive. Just make your first finger and thumb like an O and slide it up and down. Concentrating from the middle to the helmet is best.
you should probably just ask him. he is the only one that knows just what stimulates him. if you dont want to try playing with his balls. that could help. he would probably enjoy blowjobs much better though.
Since there is more feeling in the head I use short strokes toward the top of my penis. Lube is not a must but heightens the pleasure so since you dont feel what he is feeling it is recommended. I recommend him being in the seated (laid back a little) position which increases the blood flow and also gives him a good view. It would help for you to be naked for a little visual satisfaction.
what r u using ur hand or mouth...
Anyway, 1) make sure u concentrate on the updown motion on his penis...i mean dont just concentrate on the tip, move ur hands on the shaft...
2) U can make him more horny but letting him participate too...
Let him touch u & make u morn & masturbate too...
Just taking is making me horny.. :)
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