I find it difficult to maintain an erection during sex.?


Question:
it doesn't happen all the time and with certain guys it doesn't happen at all but it is really annoying. i think it is a mental problem rather than a medical one coz it is only with certain people that it happens with. is there anything i can do to relax and allow things to happen without problems?

Answers:
You don't give your age or any medical history. Doctors used to fob off most ED problems as psychological, but in many cases there is probably a physical cause, we just can't identify it.

It is important to get a full medical check up if you are having ED problems as they are sometimes the first manifestation of diseases like diabetes and atherosclerosis.

Once these have been excluded, Viagra ( genuine prescribed stuff!) works for most people. If the problem is just in your head it often works to kick-start things, if there is a physical cause it works to improve things for most of these patients as well.
It sounds as if you loose stimulation druing your sexual experience. You may need a different type of stimulation as opposed to what you are doing. You may also want to try eating foods that increase your libido in the blood stream. Try eating chocolate, or raw oysters before having sex.
dont understand the bit where you say with some guys,, if you are with guys you or to go with a woman but if you mean you are with a woman ,,, ask her to help you relax if she cares for you she will, understand ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,... it continues then change the person as sometimes with different peoooe its a different turn on,, tell the person you are with what you like to have done and have them do it to you ,dont think you gotto do it ,, cuz then oops someitmes it dont work,,take your time and get used to the person
problem might be ,God said Adam an Eve not, Adam an Steve.

Virago Jim
If you find this condition is primarily restricted to male partners.

It might mean that you are hetrosexual instead.

And vise-versa if it is for women.


Of course, maybe you are just trying too hard (no pun intended.) Relax! Enjoy the moment. If it happens, no big deal... try, try again later!





g-day!
It's performance anxiety.
Try having sex with a woman and all of your ED problems should
go away.
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Hi, it is probably related to some anxiety which is making you thinks about the problem and distracting you from the pleasure of having sex.
If it becomes a bigger problem try ordering cialis or viagra either from your doctor or online. Some generics are really inexpensive and have few side effects. This will give you new confidence until you start to get into sex and forget about the erictile issues. Then stop using it once your getting more relaxed about sex.
Lifes to short to get to hung up on this problem and yes its usually related to what going on between your ears rather than poor health.
Good luck
Some times you will and other times you wont
Don't worry every-bodies been there no matter what they claim
Mine went limp when my mother phoned us up whilst we were at it.

Simply this:

1. Relax
2. Think of somebody else occasionally (even somebody not actually there with you at the time)
3. Don't focus on remaining hard, or the worry will cause the exact opposite to happen.

Take no notice - some people have posted homophobic answers - whatever floats your boat, you have the same right to enjoy it. This particular forum is not one for moralisation.
maybe you are meant to be a taker not a giver?
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