19 year old good looking guy, and still virgin, sad?
Question:
I find myself rejecting the girls that want me but who i dont want even though Im still a virgin and i could be getting some. Am I stupid?
Ive got depression/anxiety issues and because of it Ive had lots of trouble maintaining a steady relationship to actually have sex. Id like the girl to be a virgin too, it would definitely make me less nervous. Its just that there is so much expectation of guys when it comes to sex in the US, I mean, probably not many guys 19 and virgin. I feel so lame.
Maybe I should just go out with one of the girls i dont really like, and finally do it.
Answers:
I'm a virgin who is a lot older than you.
It's nothing to be ashamed of, something to be proud of. You are too good than to give yourself away for someone who is going to forget about you anyway.
Don't go out and do it just to say you did it. Wait for the one you are willing to give your whole soul to - then it's right.
no. live with no regrets, save it for the right one. nothing worse than banging someone you will regret having.
Buddy. theres not that much pressure... she doesn't have to be a virgin, just look outside the box and see that everything doesn't have to be perfectly planned.
maybe bang a few of those girls that u dont want to boost your confidence and feel more confident, because trust me it boosts it way up.
dont feel lame if your wanted at least u have the ability to get ladies just relax and have fun with them
You are not stupid for being a virgin but very very smart. Why would you risk getting a disease just so you can say you aren't a virgin.
dont just settle for a random girl just cause you finally wanna 'do it'.
i know a lot of guys older than 19 that are still virgins.
and wait for the right girl, it's not hard to find a virgin girl.
im 16 and still a virgin,,and i hate it..and yea i got anxiety too and paranoia alot too..and im pretty decent looking..i just can never comit to asking a girl out..im too worried about them saying no or me saying something weird or just ******* up on a date.
I personally wouldn't recommend it you probally want your first to be special right??
There is no need to have sex! I think you should first get stable with a girl you really care about, after all you should do it if you are comfortable with it! you should later tell her how you feel about it, she will understand!
i actually think its fine you're a virgin.. its your choice your decision.. i dont know how religious you are.. but maybe you're the kind of person that wants to wait until marriage..
but i honestly think thats fine. Noone should look down on you or judge you because you choose to be a virgin, until you're ready.
I married a guy who was a 19 year old virgin. We had sex before marriage but still I wasn't a virging. In fact I slept with several guys in my days. So wait for the right one because it breaks my heart everyday to think I took something that beautiful from him. Not to mention it really bothers him as well. So don't feel bad in fact I admire you for that. Keep it until you find the one.
i was like 29 when i lost mine. i waited for the perfect woman i wanted to marry. to many deasies out there why risk it just to say ur not a virgin. just remember best thing come to those who wait
i had that same problem when i was 12 and im 14 now so u should just do them they want u so let them have u
Why not get a hooker? They're more beautiful and professional than the normal girls of today. Shouldn't cost you a lot either and you're of legal age too.
This question actually send chills down my spine, as I am also 19 years old and a virgin. You're not alone buddy!
Although I wish my intentions were as noble as yours. I choose to remain virgin as I am still deciding about my sexuality, horrible as that may sound to those involved in my upbringing (a very CONSERVATIVE upbringing), it seems the US is fairly tolerant of such situations; though this is smacked right into balance by the pressures of mainsteam society that you must lose your virginity while you are still young. I, as with the OP, appreciate the comforts of others that addressed his dilemma, thank you.
If you feel like a loser because you're a 19 year old virgin, just have sex with the girl that wants you and go on with your life.
Why do you actually want to do this finally?
I mean, if you really don't like those girls, why you have to push yourself to do it?
It only means you really wanted to get laid and don't even want to have a real relationship with one of those at all...
I am 20 now and I am still a virgin!!
I haven't been in any relationship at all!!
So am I more pathetic than you?
However, I dont think so!!
I am fine with it and life moves on!!
Don't do anything will make you regret in the future!!
dude, get some balls!
I was 21 when I first got laid. I waited until I finally met someone who turned me on sexually. It was lousy. I then bounced around and finally found someone who was a real sex freak and we hit it off. No, I didn't marry her because she was stupid. I waited until I was 27 before I got married and well screwed out.
Your upset now what happens when you have to support a unwanted child for 19 years and marry someone your not in love with just to do the right thing.Not to mention dying from aids. Just use your head and follow your heart theres no certain age. You just feel the pressure of what this society especially U.S.puts on you.Relax; take your time. Your not lame at all.Your expectations are too high your have to kiss a few toads before you find your princess.
wit till you are married
masturbate
well first of all good luck trying to find a virgin girl...there arnt that many out there...dude here is what i would do if i were you..get a few friends of yours and take a vacation to chicago or flordia.there are a lot of clubs and bars in chicago you meet some chicks in...all you gotta do is find a girl who wants what u want...a one night stand
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