Guy's psycology on sex?
Question:
A. Why could this have happened.
*not comfortable at my house (I live with my parents)
*pressure bc we hadn't slept toghether before
*anxiety at work
*other reason
B. how do I deal with this?He has started calling himself "my uncapable lover"+he almost cried in my arms when it happened!he is feeling really bad about it
I know he has only dated older women+we are the same age could it be a reason?
Answers:
you spelled pyschology wrong.
sounds like nerves this happened to me when trying to make a baby i was really nervous and things went droopy
Poor guy! Probably just performance anxiety (nerves). There's a lot of pressure on guys to be the sexual stallion, and I think it probably means that he likes you a lot. I've had plenty of sex partners, but I have never been so scared about sex as I was with my first love. I was a mess for days afterwards!
I believe this is the reason: *pressure bc we hadn't slept toghether before
He is not ready yet. When you are both comfortable and the time is right I'm sure you'll be just fine.
MAYBE HES GAY OR U UGLY LOL
we all he requires is concentration, self belief,and he should be made feel comfortable ... because in sex ... 2 things shoul synchronize ..which is mind and body.
any of the too diverged towards something else (speacially the mind) will lead to what happened to your BF.and its only u, u and u who can help him out in this... your age and his past experience has no effect in this case.
poor guy was probably nervous.
It is something normal! It happens to everyone. Dont worry about it. Act natural, dont dwell on that. It is so common. Men are not robots.
you need to go to see doctor and listen his or her advice.
First, this isn't uncommon. Your boyfriend must have never had this happen before and is probably worried.
The Answer to "Why could this have happened?"
You said, "after a long time" and then when the time came he couldn't manage to pull it off. I recall that the same sort of thing happen to me. What I mean is there is a limit to how long of a time a guy can keep "alert" or get "set" to go. Its why they make viagra (the anti-poop-out pill).
These issues shouldn't have anything to do with a young guys failure to perform...
*pressure bc we hadn't slept toghether before
*anxiety at work
*other reason
An answer to "B. how do I deal with this?"
Ele don't make any assumptions that there is anything wrong when this happens to a guy. He is young and your the same age. I'm 57 and it first happened in my life 35 years ago and it happen some more too though the years . It just happens, just promise him you will never tell anyone.
It is a question of exposing ur body which u have been shielding so long.
NERVES
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