Q for Single Females?
Question:
I have had women tell me they would rather I was a little fat.
Maybe it was because they were afraid I had too much temptation because of the way I look. Or, maybe girls do really like men with a bit of a gut. You tell me lol
Answers:
i like 'em husky!! ;>)'
I like to have a man with a flat stomach. No gut. I don't really like that.
Not extremely skinny though.
a six pack isnt needed
a beer belly isnt wanted.
find a happy medium.
guts are not attractive...you don't have to have the PERFECT body but guts don't really help you much.
maybe you misinterperated her saying that you were too skinny and needed some muscle?
sorry, no guts for me.
I am more attracted to a guy with a little meat on his bones... not like morbidly obese... but I don't like bean poles.. or muscular guys...
For me, it has nothing to do w/ temptation over looks... I'm not sure why I find a bit of a gut more attractive. But my husband is EXTREMELY attractive, and he has a bit of a gut... i love it.. it fits perfectly in the curve of my back when we are cuddling.
A little fat IS a good thing... Maybe not in appearance, but in "touch". The really perfect, hard bodies, look great. But they don't feel great. Too hard. A LITTLE fat makes you "cuddly". But not a lot of fat. Keep a healthy weight, and fit body... But not a "bodybuilder" body. Those are meant to be seen not cuddled.
No. The GUT is not a good look. But, it's nice to have a little meat on the bones, you know, no ribs showing.. hip bones pretty well padded.
BUT yea, um.. don't TRY to get a gut.. that's just ugly.
I like a little extra meat but not a real "gut".
I find all kinds of guys attractive. Skinny, medium, chubby ~ it doesn't matter to me as much as their personality and stuff like grooming and style. The only body type I don't like is a body-builder type. I'd much rather be with a chubby guy than a muscle-y one! Girls are into things like pretty eyes, a white smile, cleanliness, honesty, a sense of humor, stuff like that.
Any woman that prefers a man with a gut screams insecurity in my eyes... I think we're all guilty of it too, though. I noticed when I was younger that when I was in social settings that I didn't know anyone, it was always easier for me to strike up a conversation with someone I found "slightly" less attractive, probably because I wasn't as threatened by the person... sounds so terrible to say, but true nonetheless. Fortunately for me, I grew up becoming more secure in who I was, and realized that the person's personality and character was far more important in the long run. So, basically, yeah these women are probably insecure, fearful that if they date a hot guy, they may have more to worry about keeping your attention for their own.
In my opinion , men with six packs and flat stomachs are very attractive but nothing beats a bigger man ... personally i wouldnt want to date a man that all of my friends want to get with..
To each their own!!
Mr. Cheers.
Pecks and hard rock muscles are trophy shows. When it comes to love, a woman likes to cuddle. Hard muscles are like hugging a car...you guys may be able to hug a car, but we women like to "meld" into our men.
Not talking fat...
We like something to cuddle with.
All over tone...not gut fat.
When I look at men on the dating sights...the thin ones or muscular ones do not do anything for my friends and I.
Two reasons...nothing to cuddle and a guy like that will have high expectations of his girl having to be a walking skeletin also.
Tyra is setting the true American trend of what is healthy. Skinny is not in, nor is it healthy. Having been a fashion model myself...we had to starve ourselves to get to that figure and stay starved while looking quite anorexic. Guys hooted and hollared and whistled. Long term effect...we got sick. Sex drives were not there. We had the bodies...but thin women dry up. Guys who complain that their thin wives (trophies) don't give them sex. They can't. They don't produce the juices needed to have sex be enjoyable and artificial means takes all the fun out of it.
Tyra looks great now. She's healthy and having fun.
So don't let it go to your head that your pecks become a chick magnet...maybe by eyesight. But to lay down with...yek! Who wants to sleep with lumber?
I am a little weird I guess.. I like really skinny guys!
Yeah, what do women know about men's health?
I think this is bogus - all of this "I like my men fat". Girls go after the guys that look good. Fat guys don't look good. They just want permission to get fat, and if the guy is fatter than them, they can eat what they want.
it really does not matter to me.. gut or six pack whatever as long as we are happy and love each other.. looks at not everything.
I am fixated with a nice set of abs. I dislike it when a man takes poor care of himself, and developes an unsightly lump of fat. Just my opinion, though. good luck with the ladies. =)
im not into big muscles,and i dont care what guys look like,im worried about if they have personality,what happens if one day u lose ur looks and muscles say somehting happens and the girl; ur with ditches u because she liked the way u look and didnt see ur personality?I would spend more time focusing on ur own personality than bragging about the way u loook cuz thats not cute.
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