I need yall men opinion please?
Question:
well im dating a guy that is a boxer and my mom says that he is strang , evil , druggie, violent and that he wants only have sex with me , in other words she threws alot of insults over him but i cant see her reason! sometimes i think he knows something i dont but like my man is really nice with me i try to ignore it but it is affecting the way im with him
what do you hink? is she right? why?(im 18 and he is 27)
by the way here goes a pic and a video of my bf so you and analize him better
http://k-1sport.de/en/database/show_figh...
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=...
thanks and i will give 10 points if i feel the answer was honest
Answers:
My sneaking suspicion is that your mother is being a mother. Or ptu mor eplainly, she may not be reasy for you to get involved with a man yet so she will quite probably find fault with any guy you date. Also given there is a bit of an age difference between you and your man, that too may make her uneasy.
So, try to be patient with your mother and understand she doesn't want anyone hurting her little girl. And to help calm her nerves, why not try to plan occassions where she and your bfr and possibly other family of yours and his can all get together - a BBQ or picnic or any family type event. That way, your mother will ge tused to him, get to knwo him and she may (given lots of time) well come around.
I'm a girl but I think that you would know him better after all he is your bf and you spend more time with him.
i dont think this guy looks strange..
he looks like strong man..
u'll be safe with him...
he could protect u..
your mother is trying to protect you, there is a 9year difference between you two and that could cause complications in the long run.i would say go with what your mother says until you are able to make your own choices. Mother have years of experience beyond your own so they know what they are talking about.
good luck :)
I can't tell you what kind of person he is, but I can be certain that he wants sex. Whether he is willing to do the nice things for a relationship is determined by you and he. He is a little too old for you, but that is not a major problem. If you know how you feel and know how he feels then that is what matters, but if you were sure you would not be asking strangers
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