HELP HELP HELP!! Im afraid im a online porn addict, what should i do? help me please.?
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Usually it's easier to replace a bad habit with a good habit instead of just trying to get rid of the bad habit, So find something you can do instead of watching porn, something that you will enjoy in a non-sexual way or that makes you feel good about yourself. Maybe go running or shoot baskets. Maybe during the time of day when you're used to watching porn, arrange to do some serious volunteer work. Set a goal of two extra A's on your next report card and study hard at the library instead of coming home and turning on the smut.
Don't let porn conrol you -- you need to get in charge of your own life and how you spend it. Porn is really unhealthy and teaches guys to regard females as objects instead of treating them as equal human beings, and it sets totally unreal expectations (such as how big a penis is supposed to be -- the ones on porn are mostly digitally enhanced). Breaking this bad habit is an important way to earn some real self-respect.
Only using the computer when there are other people in the room is a great idea. Or get a blocking program like NetNanny that will keep you from accessing the porn sites. (Get somebody else to install it for you and tell them NOT to tell you how to bypass it, even if you beg!)
If all else fails, pretend that each woman in the porn movies is your mother! Would you want her treated like that?
Keep at it even if you slip a few times. You are a valuable person, and you should spend your time doing things that make you proud of yourself, not watching some sicko sex stuff. Sex is beautiful at the right time with the right person. Don't let porn pollute it for you. Good luck!
naughty boy..
well u seem to have a problem why dont u not turn your computer on for a day no matter how much you want to.
try turning your computer off for a while and finding somethign else to do like running, playing a sport, videogames, gettign a girlfriend ( protected sex)
you need to have the will power not to go to those sites.
Why do you want to cut down?
Masturbation is a perfectly normal and healthy thing to do. In fact, studies show it helps to promote a healthy prostate. You don't have a finite limit of your "seed".
Unless it's affecting your social life, ie., staying home to masturbate rather than go out on a date, I wouldn't worry. If you want to cut back for religious reasons, you should speak to a minister.
Some tips for cutting back: Next time you want to masturbate, picture the ghost of Mother Teresa (or your father, ancestor, whoever) standing over your shoulder watching you debase yourself.
Just the thought of that is enough to make me go flaccid... and I wasn't even aroused.
get a porn blocker
Shut down your internet connection.
at least you don't want to do this, that's good. I understand that you can go nuts saying "I won't do it, I won't do it." and then you do it again. put up a siteblocker or something where it blocks certain sites, if it gets worse asks your parents what to do, it may be embarassing but they should know and you'll be happy that you asked later. only go on sites that don't have that stuff. best of luck! I'm sorry your stuck like that, don't give into temptation
Limit yourself. If it's an "addiction" like you say, then start limiting yourself. But make the time limit a little longer each time. Like 1 time you have to wait a day, then next you have to wait at least 2 days b4 looking it up again, then 3, then 4, and so on... It worked for me. Also if you feel like looking it up force yourself to keep yourself busy for just a bit longer. Like if I'm playing a video game I force myself to wait till not the next, but the save point afterwards. I usually get distracted from the urge or it just goes away. If you are more of a TV person wait till next show or something... And try to stay away from shows/games that might remind you of it.
find another hobby. i say go jog at a local park or track. this should keep you away from not only your computer, but also from your house...
Get rid of your bedroom pc, just use one in the common area.
If its "affectin" your life then you need professional help and a strong mental attitude. Just like addictions to drugs, alcohol or nicotine you can't do it alone. However, unlike those addictions, masturbation addiction hurts no one, doesn't cost anything, and is easily obtained. Maybe you should learn to live with it, like the rest of us, and stop whining.
How to avoid porn addiction on the Internet
1. Consider installing porn content filtering software( Strongly Recommend NetDog Porn Filter,you can get it from www.netdogsoft.com ) on your computer. it will help to protect you from stumbling into pornography by accident, That's important.
2. Do not try to guess what the address of a Web page is. Many pornographic sites have similar addresses of respectable sites. For example www . whitehouse . com is a porn site. The real address is www. whitehouse . gov
3. Never click on Web site addresses that you receive in an unsolicited email.
4. Do not open attachments that come in email that are unsolicited.
5. Use filtered search engines or reputable directories to find the information you need.
6. Do not search for terms like girls. Think before you enter a search term.
Stick with reputable sites.
If something looks questionable, don't let curiosity get the best of you. Delete it or close the window.
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