A serious question about sex?

Question:

Ok I am curently in a relationship with a beautiful woman who is older than me I am 18 and she is 39 yes i know wow!! now lets move on. The thing is that we have sex occasionally but I never really get to ejaculate and there are times when we go at it for 1-3 hours and still nothing. She seems somewhat dissapointed that every time we have sex i never do ejaculate and i dont want her to think that i dont find her sexy because i really do think she is sexy. I dont drink or use any kind of drugs or steroids I work out and stay in shape and i have good health compared to most. What can cause this inability to ejaculate should we just go at it longer or should i get this checked out i know that the sex organs are tied onto the cardiovascular system and that you can tell if you have any heart problems if you have any sexual problems. And lately i have been getting pressure in my chest could these be related in any way. Anyone with professional answer please help should i be worried?

Answers:
Ok, well to start with, yes the penis USES the cardiovascular system. That simply means that it requires blood and oxygen (as do nearly every body tissue). This doesn't mean that somebody with a heart problem will have a penis problem. Thats a strange thing, i have never heard it before.

Just having sex is often not the right sort of stimulation for a guy to ejaculate. Sometimes they have gotten so used to the feeling of masturbation, that anything else seems as though it is not getting the right spot. I would suggest a couple of things.

Try plenty of different positions. You may find the ones you normally try don't really get the right spots for you, but if you change it up you may find one that hits it perfectly.
Also try not masturbating between seeing her. It may be hard, but you will be so turned on that you increase your chances of ejaculating.

Well done on the older woman!

try to be cool, girl wants to romance her for 30 min.

Maybe you could try to use your imagination a bit. Rev yourself up .. you know... think naughty thoughts.

Try not to think so hard about it. It sounds like the stress is killing your mood. If it doesn't happen. Then try again. Don't keep trying for three hours straight. That is really stressful. Give yourself some time in between. Hug and tickle or whatever. Just don't take it so serious. The pressure in your chest could be the anxiety due to this.

Good luck to you!

Thats weird, I have never heard intercourse lasting more then an hour except in porn movies. i don't think your heart is related to your penis. You should consult a doc ASAP.

Ask your g/f ( you know being older..experience comes with that~) IF she knows of anything Kinky , or new positions. tell her you want to spice things up a bit...?

Get some books, Or look online for some kinky positions.. That might help you out a bit...Or try masturbating before the intercourse, ... like just start it and then Ask your Gf.. to continue it.. Most men go crazy over a women jacking them off, Making it Fun, And do it together...? Have her go down on you first ,, Oraly, Then Use hands second? Then work in into some spicy moves.

Good luck Hun!!

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