I think my wife has a mental problem(serious. what/how should I proceed?
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Dude, Your wife is normal. End of discussion.
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Dude.skip town, or call the cops
PMS maybe? or stress?
She could be bipoler but I doubt it.
Sounds like she could be bi-polar, and this is serious. You need to control this with medication. She needs to see a doctor. You should convince her to go.
Bi-polar
Look into it.
Whatever you do,I don't think you should ignore it.
Get her to see a therapist.
Maybe you should try to see a marriage counselor together. She might have anger issues because of something you did.
As Dr Phil says, no matter how you look at a pancake, there are always two side to it.
look my mom has the same problem she is crazy and my father takes her to the hospital every.Wednesday..he loves her but if she dosent get the proper treatment she is like a gemini switching sides out of the blue..i think u need to take her to the doctors for some therapy it works.
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Seriously, try and get her to go see a therapist. She will be so much happier. And even consider medication. I used to have angry fits and be irritable all the time. Then I took care of it and I'm a much happier person, and more pleasant to be around. Best of luck.
My mother is the exact same way. I think they're both bipolar. Going to a counselor would be very helpful. Unfortunately, most bipolar people will not go to a counselor. The only thing I can think of is telling her the two of you need marriage counseling or you'll leave her. You can mention all of this during your session. My parents counselor wanted to put my mother on medication but she wouldn't take it. The marriage ended up in divorce. Twenty years later she's still as crazy as ever. Oh, if it does come down to divorce.take the kids with you. It's no fun growing up under the influence of a bipolar parent.
tell her, "Honey, I love you so much, but I don't understand why you are so angry all the time? You would please talk to me? If not, please call a friend and get it off your chest, if not for me or you then please talk to someone for the kids sake."
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good luck. she may not realise her mistake
go see your family doctor.. if shes that hostile there could be something wrong, it will save your marriage.
I think that you should tell her that in a nice way then take her tyo the doctors and see what they can do or, tell your wife and then let her tell u wats up maybe she is going thro some ormones or maybe somethings up and shes really getting different.
You aren't qualified (and neither am i)to diagnose her mental state. I can tell you that yes she sounds like something is really really wrong.She might be bi polar, she might just be frustrated. Will she go to a doctor? What does her family think? You owe it to your kids to do something.
Talk to your wife. Let her know that you love her and that her mood swings worry you and ask her to go to a therapist with you TOGETHER. Only a trained professional can evaluate the extent of your wifes problem. This thing will not heal itself.
it could be frontal cortex disorder.. it can cause many beahavioral changes.. she should do MR of her brain.good specailst will recognize it immediately. problem can be cotrolled with medicine..make sure you get her to see the doctor.. and don't leave her alone with children.. she is not aware of her problem, so she can do something she is not aware of and hurt children,.
I would sit down calmly and talk to her about these changes you have noticed. Stress and hormonal in-balance such as PMS, etc, or medications she is taking could be a factor. She may be depressed as well. Ask her what you can do to make things better at this point. Please tell her that the vulgar lanquage is not appropriate around the children, however. If, after having your talk, helping her our around the house, etc doesn't work, then make an appointment with a doctor and talk to the dr. about it WITH her. Keep a journal on what is going on so you won't leave anything out if you do have to tell the doctor. Since this is not her normal demeanor and seems to be something new, there is definitely something wrong here. I hope it all gets worked out soon so as not to affect the children and you. Good luck!
Saying she is bipolar is jumping the gun. It could be a number of things. It could be PMS (pre menstrual syndrome) if you only notice it certain times of the month. It could be stress, look at things she might be stressed out about, with stress comes depression and the two together can cause mood swings. Then of course there are more serious reasons such as bi-polar disorder. Is there a history of bi-polar in her family. It is usually hereditary. I wouldn't make this assumption until all other things have been ruled out.
So tell her your concerned that she hasn't been acting herself and the kids have noticed this change as well. Then set an appointment with the doctor. Whether its pms, stress or the worst of cases there is treatment for all of these issues. Good luck!
she sounds bi-polar.
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dude who knows what it is exactly wrong with your wife to find out she will have to see a doc i have bypolar disorder myself and it runs in my family it is possible that is what she has but i dont do those things and my husband who is not bypolar does act exactly that way i tell him its becouse hes a gemini (joke) truth is hes unhappy and creates alot of drama for him self and hes an over acheiver with alot of things going on therefore he has tons and tons of stress by the by my brothers do act that way also but not all the time with some one whos by polar its up and down up and down 4 me lately the doc has decided a mood enhancer would work and so far it has done well its topamax and is used for many diff. things and has been around for a while and one of the side affects is weights loss so unless your to skinny that would be a plus also i call it my happy pill
Since you are her husband, you are legally allowed to put her into a mental institution, if needed. If it is getting really bad, the time to get help is now because not doing anything to help your wife out might make it too late to help her at all.
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