How do i discover my insecurities and how do i over come them?
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lots of introspection will help you figure out your insecurities. pay attn to things that dont work in your life, then figure out why they dont work by seeing what gets in their way, if the obsticle is not the problem then find out what causes it if that isnt the issue then focus on it's cause etc. eventualy you will be able to tell what is your root contribution to what is wrong.
once you have an idea of how your participation has effected each negitive event (even if it's simply because you were in the wrong place at the wrong time) try to see the logic in your actions, as if trying to see someone elses point of view. once you can see how you didnt really do anything irrational you can then forgive yourself for your choices.
once you have forgiven yourself you will have one less reason to feel unpleased about who you are as a person. repeat this set of actions over and over until you find yourself stretching to find bad things in your life. at which point you wont be worried about insecurity. if you are not insecure about your insecureness, then you are well more then confident enough to say "i have discovered my insecurities and overcame them" but you might not wanna say it outloud cause people might think your some kinda weirdo freak! ha ha ha ha :p
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Discovering them should be easy. Overcoming them should be almost as easy. If your afraid of heights, for instance, make yourself go up in tall buildings. You'll see that no harm comes to you, and eventually you'll be less afraid of heights.
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Insecurities will be pretty obvious on some level. The root cause may be difficult to determine. If these are causing you serious trouble seeing a counselor or psychologist may be a good idea.
If there are general everyday insecurities you can probably help yourself through the difficulty. Preperation can be very important in overcoming insecurities.
Take a philosophy class or read Kafka--it will make you feel insecure.
Then lose forty pounds and have everyone make a fuss.
insecurities are dependant on the person. every person has different insecurities and overcomes them in their own way. ask your friends to see what they can say about what your known insecurities are. if they truly are friends they will support and help you get past them.
I think the best way the discover them is to ask yourself what sort of things you would leave out if you had 5 minutes to describe yourself to your dream date. Try to imagine he/she's going to decide whether or not to go on a date with you. What kinds of things would you hope he/she didn't notice about you? Or even better. her father or his mother. Or a interviewer for your dream job.
Overcoming them is another story and completely depends on what they are- Self-esteem issues require one approach, body issues require another. It also depends on why you have the issues.
look according to me u should face them this will make u strong.u should have confidence u know wat?? if u have confidence then u can acheive any thing our answer wont help u .u r going to help urself.look a person can change everything acc to him so change ur way and face them with full guts and GOOD LUCK
I guess you turn your back on them and "run to the light". Focus in what you want to achieve from a practical viewpoint. If you feel insecure around women, make a goal, in a positive frame of mind, that you will become more confident and assertive around women and people in general. Don't make a goal like "I will become less insecure". That is like making a journey walking backwards, with your eyes on your point of departure. Move your eyes towards the dream, the vision of the better self you have already created.
Also it doesn't hurt to create a library of role models to feed your spirit. Read stories, comics, watch tv shows that show someone that seems like a big brother to you, and let your spirit absorb all that.
You don't need to discover your insecurities. You need to discover your dreams and goals, and don't take your eyes off them.
Well finding ur insecurities musnt be a tough job still if u need a suggestion then in order to discover ur insecurities u shud think over n try to realize in ur day to day life where ur failure n what makes u weak..as far as overcoming is concerned.no matter what kinda problem is it..the one n only solution to it is meditation.u relax urself totally close ur eyes gently dont think anything n just miss god..ask him take away ur all probs n fears..n keeping have faith on him dont love any worldly things .cuz all these things r perishable n can just influence u physiaclly not spiritually ..search for more meditation books or can contact me personally for further help..God Bless!
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