What do I do if my boyfired acts not interested anymore?
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To be honest with you, it really could be the paxil. I have taken it and it makes me have no sex drive as a woman. But you also mentioned that you've caught him masterbating. hmmm.. I really don't know girl.. he could be cheating on you, or maybe it could be pschological. Try doing something different for him. Maybe things are pretty routine when it comes to sex between the two of you. Try cooking a nice dinner and light candles, or a massage, or wearing something you know he'll like. Please let me know how it goes, I have messenger.
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I am sorry to hear this. I am a female on b/c/ pills and sometimes I don't like sex but will masturbate. It is easier. But I also fight with my boyfriend of 6 yrs a lot and don't feel like being intimate with him. I would tell ur man to show u some affection or cut him loose
If he is mast*rbating, he is probably thinking of some image (men are visually stimulated by nature). If that image is something he has unnaturally implanted, then he might have a problem with pornography. If he is not looking at porn during his mast*rbation, then there may be some physical aspect about you (scent, taste, appearance, experience) that he is afraid to discuss with you for fear of hurting your feelings, or there may be sexual boundaries he doesn't feel as if he can cross with you.
Men are very fragile when discussing such matters, so be aware that the slightest embarrassment may turn him off forever.
I noticed that, at the time of this posting, you had also asked advice because you're trying to have a baby, and you also asked about pregnancy testing. Having read both of those other questions, I also wonder if he might be oversexed, or simply not interested in having a baby.
show him this note and all teh replys and see what he says, i don't think its the paxil, maybe he is looking a pron on the internet and doing it with the computer or something like that, next time you find him masterbaattting say to him hey thats my peenniss and i want to play with it and grab it and say "let me help". something bad is going on maybe he has another girl, but you need to make him talk about it gently and kindly, let him know you miss it. tell the doc hes done with paxil, if hes working again it time to stop it. its not good for him to stay on thoes mind altering drugs. show him this not and your quesiton. these experiences can make you two closer if your willing to talk through them.
Plain and simple. There's many fish in the sea so find yourself another one who is interested.
Get yourself a, v i b r a t o r, and use it in bed when say he's asleep; knowing it will wake him up. Your probably better doing it early morning near his wake up time when he's probably hard and horney.
i think some of it might be the paxil. some of it might also be that you're talking about it alot and that bothers him. you should sit him down and let him know your concerns. if that doesnt' do any good, a vibrat0r always works. i think most guys like to watch a woman with a vibrat0r, it makes them very horny.
I'm so sorry !
excuseme to say this :
you must follow him every where i think he has another girl friend.
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