my fiance' just lost his 3 month old niece..how can i help.seems like he duznt wana talk abt it.?
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It's said that men don't like to talk of their problems and that the best to do is not to disturb them, he will think about it for some times and at last he'll come back to his normal state.
It's also said that women likes to talk their problems out and that's why when they see a man that seems to have a problem they try to talk with him, that only makes all the things worse cause the man don't want any help, he wants to take his time to think things out by himself and being disturbed makes him feel bad. In general men just look at TV, or do something that's not "brain using" so that he can think of other things.
If he really needs you he'll come to talk.
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People deal with it in different ways. If he doesn't wanna talk about it, I wouldn't force it. Sorry to hear about it.
give him time .that hard to say what to do just be there when he ready to talk.
Just be there, hug him a lot, be close to him. Sometimes guys cant talk about things but if there is physical comfort around they will go for it.
Hes probably in a lot of pain and he may even be ignoring it himself, so give him time but be sure he knows you are available.
just be there for him. It's not what you say that matters, he just needs you there with him and most men don't talk about things. It may be 6 months before he actually talks about it and he may never talk about it, or he may talk about it with someone else and not you. Don't take it too seriously, and don't think about it or let it hurt your feelings. Death brings many things to the mind and it means different things to different people and it affects everyone differently. Time will heal a lot. Hope this helps.
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