Suicide for the wrong reasons?

Question:

Okay, let's say you've just realized that everyone you know is full of ****. You've lost your best friend to a psycho controlling asshole, and you finally realize you can't live without the one person in your life who loved you and accepted you no matter what, and then someone tells him you're cheating on him when you're not and he wants to leave and you're going on furlough b/c your a head start teacher on summer vacation so you'll have to file for unemployment but you don't know if that will pay the bills and the one thing that would make it all okay is a baby of your very own but you've been trying for months and nothing works and you'd try after he leaves but you only want his babies. If he leaves and the money won't pay the bills, would that be a sufficient reason to kill yourself, or are ppl going to make fun of me?

Answers:
I don't think any reason is good enough for suicide. I'm not making fun of you, but you should seriously talk to someone about it.

Other Answers:
dont do it! it wont be worth it belive me i have tried! just live and find someone else i know it isnt easy but try please dont do it

I don't think there is ever a right reason for suicide. Turn to God for help. He's helped me so much.

those r really good reasons

dude.dont do it! ask god.seriously.try to go on with life.

you can do what you want, but i wouldnt do it
you can always find a rainbow after a storm.

just move far far away dont do it because all of us on yahoo would miss you ps i still love you baby

First of all, there is no good reason for suicide. Everyone wins, you die. Second, tomorrow will be different--no doubt. you may run into the right guy just looking for someone exactly like you or you might win the lottery or.who knows? Suicide is NEVER a solution to any problem--it is a long term solution for a short term problem.

Do this: make a list of all the things you are thankful for. I bet you have alot.

IF you still feel suicidal call: 1-800-SUICIDE. 1-800-273-TALK.

Make the right choice and LIVE.
Source(s):
My own walk on the edge

Honey.there IS no right reason for suicide! Here's why: (A) it's a direct sin against God; (B) it hurts too much; (C) you don't think of the people you love when you think about suicide, and (D) it's just plain stupid! Nothing in life can possibly happen that could be bad enough to make me consider suicide, and I've been in a lot of situations where that would have been an easy answer. Life is meant ot be challenging.and it's up to us to accept those challenges and meet them!

I normally don't get involved in things lsimilars but, I hate to see good people in pain. I know sh*t looksresponsibleut, trust me, things will get better. Talk to your boyfriend, try to explain it, if he won't listen, you can find a way to move on, it will be hard, and take time, but you can do it. As to the job situation, there are plenty of jobs out there that can help you pay the bills, even though you might not like them. I am not trying to sound high and mighty, or tell you anything is your fault. I am just trying to let you know that there are other options. Suicide is not a good alternative. I promise you that there are plenty of people that would miss you, and don't want to see you go. I don't.
A good friend of mine once thought along simalar lines as you and committed suicide. Even though I was not responcible, I still blame myself and haven't been able to fully get over it, and it was over a decade ago that it happened.
Please take some time and think about it. If you need to talk email me, I'll listen.

There are never any reasons, good or bad, to commit suicide. No matter how bad a situation may seems, there is still no reason to do such a thing. Seek out someone you can trust with your feelings, a minister, a good friend, a counselor.there is always an answer to keep going forward, even if there seems to be no answer right away. Trust and have faith and look for a new path, even if it is not the original one you had chosen.suicide solves nothing and only leaves pains and heartbreaks to others.
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Some one who contemplated the same thing long ago.and is proof that all saddness and darkness can be surpassed. That someone was me.

You will find no making fun of you from me I can see you are very confused and your emotions are running wild ,Its plain to see you love this person dearly but please don't take your own life no one is worth that .Try to talk to him if that's what you wont .Having a child wont change any thing just hold on if you cant work things out with him life doesn't end there you may find someone else and have a child one you both can raise to gether think about what if a child had been involved in the situation you're in now if he believes everything he hears who's to say he wouldn't have walked out on you if you did have his child you wouldn't that for your baby .After you sit down and think with a clear mind and you have your life back in order find you some one that will be good to you and treat you with respect and believe in you not everyone else.For now get you some help their are people who care and can help you ,don't give up stand up and fight lady you will find a way just reach out and someone will reach back.

I think you know just were your at,and thow it is what it is,it is balanced.Sounds like a life to me.

There is absolutely no reason for suicide. Don't have a baby for the wrong reason either. A bad situation could make a baby's life a living Hell.

The 14 year old I was talking about last night was also thinking along the same lines you are and he called a friend and told them about his plans, and they just drove around and talked for hours and went and played basketball. You just need someone to talk too.
I also had a friend that did commit suicide almost a year ago, and he never seemed to be that kind of person, he was always the one telling jokes and making everyone else laugh and if you ever needed to talk he was right there!! He did this over a girl. I know to this day if he would have just waited awhile they would probably be together today, but he wasn't thinking about what could happen tomorrow or in a couple of months. He just wasn't thinking straight, I still feel like if I just would have known I could have talked to him about it. It is just not worth it! YOUR LIFE IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN ANYTHING ELSE! Just be patient and find someone to talk too.

Somehow I tend to feel confused about this multiplex question.
By reading the replies that are already in your column it is evident that there are more people interested in your well being, and would like to be able to help you not to think in those terms.
Geez lady, you are more complicated than my College Algebra courses but as in all problems a solution must be sought.
In the final sum (analysis)you will certainly resolve an answer; however, it is up to the mathematician to work the problem correctly in order to come up with the correct answer.
All that I can say is that if you can not figure a problem out in one way (multiplication of factors), try a little division (lessen the integers).
A problem is only as important as you, the self, want it to be or allow it to be. Jose
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Wading on the shores of Life's Drifts immersed in the search of my true self. Jose

I know you said that God has not helped you, but if you give him a try I think he can/will help you. But I know many people that have wanted to commit suicide and have attempted it, but I know that it is the wrong choice, there are always reasons to live, and life always takes major turns. Plus no offense to you but I think that if you were to commit suicide that would mean you can't handle life because you feel it's to hard. Life is like a game and if you commit suicide then you are quitting the game, and you really don't want to be a quitter now do you?Plus you can look at it like you are competeing with the other people in the world, so you don't want to lose.

your baby won't be like a medication and make everything go away, worries on raising it with your mental condition will only cause you more distress, so think twice before you place another human being into a dysfunctional household

a baby isn't the cure..that is what ur brain wants u to blv.

and if ur guy can't trust u then ur better off without him.

plus, how will u ever be able to know if ur life will ever be better if u won't be able to live to see the future?

Everything will work out.

My uncle is married and has 4 kids and is $25, 000 in debt and works as a dock-worker at Target and has a real tough life.he isn't even considering suicide though he knows he probably will never be able to offer much to his family.he is 46 years old already and has no stable income.

Just have faith in anything.if not God.Begin by having some in urself as well.

You have still achieved more in ur life than others.

look at it this way, if life has got so low, it can only get better, cant it.

every time i feel that low, i try and rise myself above it.

looking at it from another angle, i think about the people who are worse off than me (and there always will be people worse off than you, no matter how bad you feel)and feel that if i committed suicide, then that would be an insult to them, who keep on working and working and working to keep themselves alive, basically think that suicide is a weak way out and you will be strong.

i have many ways of trying to keep yourself up, no. 1 is by smiling and laughing.

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