How do you tell your girlfriend to lose weight?
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tell her shes a fat cow.
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Be looking at a swimsuit model magazine and casually show it to her and say "Damn, she looks fine"
Be like man I have to work out do you want to join me
Tell her, lose weight or its over.
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Don't. Start an exercise and healthy eating program yourself and see if you can't interest her in joining you.
Take her excercising w/you.
plan time together doing active things (hiking, biking, etc) and cook healthy meals/don't eat out as much. with that severe of weight gain, you also need to consider that she might have depression, binge eating disorder, or another medical problem. if she is on depo provera, she should switch to another method of birth control.
ask her if she might want to join a gym with you b/c she might not feel comfortable without you she might trust you
tell her you're going on a diet and try to get her to join.
you could also just tell her strait forward. say that you're worried that she might gain to much weight and become unhealthy.
wow, thats kinda supreficial, but i can see your point.
You dont !!
if you arent happy with her and can't accept her, she's not the girl for you.
dont hurt! but be honest dont turn and turn around the subject. tell her that you love her for who she is and if you are telling her that its because who care and you want to be happy with her
good lock girls are not always easy!
Buy her a skirt or top one size too small. and replace the label from an item one size too large!
OR:
put together a photo album of the two of you from a year ago.she'll realise it by comparison!!
Your a jerk.
I agree with asking her to get in shape with you.
After I had my 3rd baby, I didn't lose my weight as fast as the others and immediately my husband started telling me that i was fat and that i was disgusting. He kept telling me to lose my weight and do you know what i did? I shoved food into my mouth just to show him that i wasn't gonna do it. Please don't tell her that she's a cow or comment on her weight. Ask her to join you when you go exercise. Or ask her to go take a power walk with you and don't critize her if she only lasts like 5 min. It's hard at first. Just keep encouraging her to add a couple of more min. every week or two. That's also a great time for you two to spend together and talk about things. Make her feel special. If my husband wouldn't have said all those things to me, I would have lost my weight really fast.
Im a girl so i think that saying " hey i noticed that you've been gaining a little lbs. are you okay? i want you to be as healthy as you can be, so if you want we can join a gym program", is the best way to go, sound caring and sensitive. Dont tell her that you want to break up with her if she dosnt or anything that the other people said. We care about how we look, and ask her if shes ok cuz people get stressed and gain weight so that might be why. And go through stuff with her so she dosnt feel so alone in it. you could also on occasion, cook her not fatening meals (that taste great too.) so she feels that you want her to be healthy.
Pretty callous of you - if you love her it shouldn't matter how she looks. BUT, did you consider she may have thyroid disease, it could be a side effect of the birth control she's on, could be many things. How would you feel if this were her letter about you getting a beer gut? There's more to her than weight - look into it!
Instead of telling her she needs to lose weight or she's turning into a cow, explain to her that it is unhealthy to be over weight, and you are concerned for her health. Also, suggest you go for long walks together or take her to the gym and show her how to use the machines there.
That's really messed up. If you truly love her, you'll accept her weight. However, if you're worried about her health, try asking her when her next check-up with her doctor is going to be. If it's pretty far, try to kind of lean towards making it sooner, then you can call her doctor and talk to him/her about it. If that doesn't seem to work out, I agree with the other people about asking her to go excercising with you. Try playing sports. You can start off slow by walking around a lake or at the beach.
Good luck!
thats kind of superfical..u should love her for the inner her and not her appearence..i wouldn't tell her u need to loose weight..u should start working out and be like i get bored by mmyself do you want to come run with me..we could talk and have fun..and i bet she would love to go
First off, don't "tell" her to lose weight. Look into websites about health and show them to her, tell her that you both need to be more healthy (Even if you think you already are healthy, you can never be too healthy, you know?).
Now, if she takes this the wrong way, comfort her and tell her that you just want to see her take better care of herself. Tell her that you don't want to see her get diagnosed with heart disease later on down the road or anything like that. Take her to go to the park and jog around with you, or even walk around for a few hours. Do things with her that will keep her active. It will make your bond much stronger to.
Next, you should eat together more. Eat more fruits and veggies (organic is best, btw.) You see what I'm saying? Don't ever tell her she's turning into a cow or anything. That will make nothing better. Talk to her and see if anything is bothering her, maybe that's why she has put on the weight in the first place. (I'm not saying you haven't, I'm just trying to help you.)
Just be there for her along the way, and always encourage her. Be supportive of her if and when she decides to start living a healthier lifestyle.
Hope this helps! =)
i cant think of a polite way to say loose weight,ha.try taking her for walks on the beach,or apark.i hear sex burns calories ha..when she is out throw away some junk food..she will probably assume u ate it.if you are loosing interest maybe there are other problems.some people eat when their depressed or bored.you could try keeping her happy and entertained .spice it up a little..good luck
NEVER TELL A FEMALE SHE NEEDS TO LOSE WEIGHT.ESPECIALLY IF YOU WANT TO KEEP THIS RELATIONSHIP
I'm a female and i would know. My suggestion is for y'all to have an open discussion. My boyfriend and i have them every once in a while. You have to talk to each other but neither person can get mad about what is being said nor can they complain. It works for us.
Example he bought me a pair of jeans in a size 7 and I wear a size 9 so i was trying to lose weight to fit into them. I didn't want to return them because it was the first thing he had bought me. We talked and he asked why i was getting so small I told him and them we both laughed about it.
But don't get me wrong We are always open to each other. He put on about 20 pounds during football season it was weird because it wasn't all fat He added muscle so it wasn't that bad.
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well, with that attitude, i suggest u leave her
stop being mean. If u feel like that then u probobly don't love her like u say u do .
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