My dad burned up in a fire yesterday.
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Im so sorry about this tragedy. My father died in 2000 I walked around in a fog for a month. I tried to stay by myself but my friends would'nt let me and that actually helped me even though I did'nt realize it at the time. Ask a friend to watch your kids and get some alone time with God I did this when I could get away from concerned friends that's the only way I got through my fathers death, time will help to heal the wounds even though I still miss my dad very much. Think of the great times you shared with him they will make you smile.
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That would be hard to go through. Sorry to hear that.
Sorry to hear. Just tell them thanks for the thoughts and you'd like to be alone for now.
I'm sorry to hear that even though my words are probably meaningless at this point. Just be with your kids even though they don't understand you still have them with you. Other family can help too.
So he. died. Or is he sevirly burned? Either way it is best to confront it and think about him in good respect. If you keep thinking about it it will stay w/ you untill you pass. Lingering only leads to more pain. Stay cheerful and make the best out of it. Still, I'm sorry for your loss.
Everyone is looking to you for strength.
If they feel you are devastated, they will give you MORE attention.
Tell your kids your favorite stories about him and how it's important to be nice to each other, because everyday could be our last.
Also remind them and yourself that though his body is gone, he is fresh in your memories and that sometimes you will be able to feel his presence, usually when you need it most.
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Lost my dad at 20.
I'm so sorry 2 hear that honey ,but things will get better
You don't have to say anything to people. You can just walk away. You are grieving and that's okay. If they don't understand, they aren't people you need to know anyway. And I am very sorry, I buried my dad as a teen and know this is hard. I will pray for you.
i'm sooooo sorry to hear that. tell them right now you want to be alone and when you feel better you might be able to talk. hope this helps
i understand my father died to it will take a while to get use to but just be with your kids and let them know that you care for them and god would have wanted it this way then take a longggggg vacation just you and the kids they need you now more thatn ever
lost my dad @ the age of 2
My deepest sympathies. You don't need to say anything to people, just let them be there for you while you grieve. No one knows quite what you are going through or what to say.
omg. I'm sorry about that. i now you dint know me and advice from ppl u dint know isn't good but you should try to explain to your kids whats going on.. unplug ur phone so nobody can disturb you and call your Friends and tell them you need to be alone w/ your kids 4 a little while. Take of work 4 a week or 2.. if you have a husband then let him watch the kids and you go out and take some time to your self. If your husband loves you he'll understand what your going through.:(
Sorry to hear about your dad. But you need to believe in God and trust that he has a plan for you. You also need to be strong for your kids like you said there just kids. Also see if your family members can watch them for a while and you just pray and ask God to give you strength and understanding.
First of all I am sorry for your loss, that is a truely terrible thing to have happen to you and your family. Second, everyone grieves differently so don't feel as though in some way you need to explain your way of dealing with your grief to others. Lastly, no matter what you say or do to your kids at this point it is gonna be something they won't understand. How are they to understand when you can't even come up with any answers. Give yourself some time and lean on your family and friends to help field some of the questions and concerns from your kids.
I understand completely,it's like you know they care and mean well,but your so upset that your just not ready to hear "OH,I'M SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS AND IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO FOR YOU" right now!! It is ok for you to morn by yourself for a while,I mean you just lost one of the most important people in your life!! Just let them know your not ready for this right now and when your ready to talk about it you will!! I'm sure they will understand!
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This is exactly how I felt when I had my misscarage!!
My heartfelt condolences for your loss. Your Dad is now in a world where there is no pain or sorrow. I am sure he would NOT want you to suffer. Remember all the good times you spent with him. Don't lock the world out! Let the people who love you show how much they care for you. And, above all, think of your children. They need you.
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