i'm stuck and not sure how to change, and i keep thinking of ways to die .i was sex abused by 3 dif people
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Please understand it WAS NOT YOUR FAULT and that you are not alone. I personally know how you feel I was raped for 15yrs as a kid. Which included more than 3 people. I've also wanted to die, but you know what were a survivor. I was even angry at GOD for a long time, until I realized I was never alone he was always right there with me or I wouldn't be alive. I know it's hard to trust anyone and it's hard to let anyone close, for the FEAR of getting hurt, but sometimes you just gotta take a chance, if it don't work out say to YOURSELF (they don't know what they lost) then move on. I also have cats there very relaxing just to sit and pet them. I guess if we put as much time in a relationship as we do caring for the cats then we'd find what were looking for a true friend. Sorry wrote so much, just wanted you to know I UNDERSTAND. GOD BLESS and feel free to e-mail if you need to talk SENCERELY your friend
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you should take therapy or meditate so that the bad things are left behind. Then you can start fresh
go see a perfessional therapist or hypnosis professional.honestly, itll help you
You need professional help. If you're in college, your campus probably has mental health staff available for free, or a reduced rate.
If you ever feel truly suicidal, call the suicide help line. It should be in your yellow pages.
Tell your family .Talk to someone .Cry it helps.
This might help you:
http://suicidehotlines.com/
There are answers.
You don't have to die to solve your problems.
Go to a doctor before you really screw up plz save yourself
before you do somthing stupid
You need a new start and I think the one place that you could get that is to join a Church and really open your heart up to Jesus! He'll help you through anything and more! You will meet some really terrific people, that will be more than willing to help you deal with your pain! Good Luck, I'll say a prayer for you!
Try not to think about it EVER again.
The least painful way to die is either drinking anti-freeze or a bullet to the head, a small calliber will do but I will say before you do this (if you've made up your mind) don't harm your cats put them in a shelter and don't harm anyone else also remember you only have one try at life if you kill yourself its over with FOREVER you aint coming back.
See a therapist or call a crisis hotline of some sort. Things can and will change. It's never set in stone that you will always feel this way. Think of things that make you happy. Spring is here and you can sit in the sun or you can watch your favorite movie or TV show. Once you're in a funk it's hard to see how to get out. But there are ways out. I assure you. Don't keep your feelings to yourself. Tears left uncried corrode the mind.
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Personal and hard learned experience.
kiling your self will not resolve anything it will just make you disapear AND MAKE UR FRIENDS AND FAMILY SAD JUST GO TO A SPECIALIST SOME ONE THAT CAN REALLY HELP YOU BUT FOR THE MOMENT SCREAM,CRY,DO SOMETHING TO DISCHARGE EVERYTHING AWAY 4 THE MOMENT IT WILL HELPYOU WONT SOLVE ANYTHING BY MAKING ANYHARM OR TAKING YOUR LIFE IT WILL JUST BE DONE THATS IT AND WHEN PEOPLE DIE YOU DONT TAKE ANYTHING WITH YOU NOT EVEN YOUR CATS SO YOU WILL GO ALONE PLZ DON'T DO IT JUST LOOK 4 HELP YOU ARE SPECIAL EVEN IF YOU DONT REALIZE IT AND DONT EVEN PAY ATENTION TO THE DORKS THAT GIVE YOU IDEAS OF KILING YOUR SELF THEY ARE JUST PEOPLE WHO LIKE TO HARM OTHERS AND THAT ARE IMATURE AND STUPID BELIEVE ME IF YOU TELL THEM KILL YOUR SELF THEY WONT BE BRAVE ENOUGH TO DO IT SO DON'T PAY ATENTION AND KEEP LIVING.
ending your life won't help it'll only make it worse .i'm not going to pretend i know wat your going through but you prabably can't bond because you can't trust anyone because you've been emotionally scarred from those three incedents ,your afraid they'll hurt you like the ones that sexually abused you .all i can say is you prabably do need some counciling but trust me it will never go away completly ,no man(or women)can take away those experiences only someone who can heal you supernaturally can .humans are fallible and can't help you but one can,jesus,i'know that your prabably at the end of your rope but before you call it quits try jesus ,ultimatly he's the only one that can help you and heal your pain
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Bible,jesus
http://www.troubledwith.com/
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