Is it bad that the person you hate the most is yourself?
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Congratulations. You have enter the "man search of meaning" realm: Love/hate relationship with yourself and outside of yourself. You are your own worst critic, so maybe it is time to refocus. Start loving yourself instead of hating yourself. Stop judging yourself against everyone else. You must have a life before sharing a life. So focus on your life, who you are, what you want, and how to get it. But you already knew that, so the answer to your question is already within you.
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I don't think you can truly love others if you don't love yourself. What you can feel for others is the reflection of what you can feel toward yourself.
In other words, real love causes the good of the beloved. Yet the only person whose good you can know (ergo, his or her level of happiness) is yourself. So if you don't learn on yourself how to judge the effect your actions have making you happy, you won't have any way to assess the happiness (or unhappiness) you produce in others.
If you think you love someone but you make that person unhappy, or cause her/him harm, then what you feel is not love but something else: obsession, infatuation, will to control, etc.
if you hate yourself you need to do some soul searching and stop doing what you hate yourself about
its not bad, it's just a fase
I believe you cannot love anyone else without liking yourself first. Everyone is going to think your all EMO and just a negative person to be around if your not at least comfortable with yourself.
I want to tell you something in which I have learned from my experienced, and I never think that I am too old to change.I learn how to love myself more and more.No one cares for you if you do not care for yourself and who else will make you happy.No matter what if you do not heal yourself or pamper yourdself.people around us now are new breed and they live lives for themselves and they grew up with televisions.These new generation never know about the world around them.You and me know better and I am glad you threw this question out and see what is going to be.I will give you my honest opinion and it might make people angry but the truth is the truth.love and peace to all
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My life and comomsense.
Well it all realtes to your phycology cause u are always you and if you hate yourseldf then you can just go down and down in life not us.
all the succesfull people loved themself. if you hate yourself then how can you love someone??
so love youself you are you and remember there is no one like you. in this world.
happy loveing yourself
NO it is not very bad it is onlytime in your life whne you must change something in your life in your life rithm if you could love yourself, your soul and a god it is be the best thing and a best moment of your life believe me all of us came trough this situation every be all right
If you don't love yourself (okay it isn't you) then it is not possible to love another. If you have no respect for self how can you respect another. It is a strange paradox but it is true for many many people. They truly believe they love someone, then knock themselves right into the ground.. hmmmm if that is how they see themselves then how could they love another. If you don't love yourself that is anger directed inward and it always comes out somehow to those around you.
TO TRULY LOVE YOURSELF IT HAS TO COME FROM THE HEART..IF YOU SAY YOU HATE YOURSELF THAT WOULD HAVE TO MEAN..THAT IF YOU SAW YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR IN THE MORNING YOU WOULDNT LIKE WHAT YOU SAW.WELL LOOK SUPER DEEP IN YOURSELF.DO YOU REALLY HATE YOURSELF OR IS IT JUST A FRONT.SOMETIMES PPL PUT HATING THEMSELVES AS A FRONT SO THEY GET THE SYMPATHY FROM OTHERS.I DID THE SAME THING FOR YEARS.I WAS FINALLY ABLE TO LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND SEE DIFFERENT THAN WHAT I THOUGHT I SAW.
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