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do it hurt on the first time you have sex. im 14 and thinking about doing it

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I wouldn't do it either.I'm 14 too and I'm definitely waiting to get married first. Also, I think it just depends on who you are if it will hurt or not, that's what I heard.

Other Answers:
don't do it.
don't do it.
don't do it.
grow up. have fun. there is plenty of time for that later.
and if you are worried about it hurting, then really you're not ready for it.
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life
common sense

well, even though i was 13 when i lost my virginity, i have to say, wait to do it, if you dont wanna wait until you are married, at least wait a few more years until you are a little more aware of what decision you wanna make. im 16 and i have very good relationship with my b/f and would do anything just to become a virgin again. im still having sex with him now almost every week, but there's not one time that i dont think that i wish i would have waited until me and him got married to have sex, i wish i saved my virginity for marriage because i want him to be the first one to really be inside of me and to be with me. so a little advice, think about this, cuz even though you might not wanna admit it, you'll regret it later on. i love sex, but i advise you to wait.please. but umm if you want your question answered, umm, it just depends on the girl, some girls are tight and some are lose, if it does hurt, it wont be much, it hurt me the first time, but not so bad that i wanted to stop, but if you do have sex be sure and tell the guy to take it slow, it wont hurt much.
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please wait! i know it sounds corny but im telling you you will regret it!

Don't do it your young and besides there are so many risks nowadays. Having sex comes responsibilities and if not careful, consequences. Be patient.

14? Way too young. wait until you are old enough to take care of a baby. It just isn't worth the heartache that a 14-18 year old boy will cause you. They don't know what they want. Save it for your wedding night. It will be much more special.

for me yes a little, and the first time was not that great, but it gets better.
but before you do it, think about the emotional and physical stress that goes along with sex, are you really ready for that, i was younger then you my first time and i wasn't ready for it at all. And if you do have sex please use protection, be safe.

OK, I was 14 when I lost my virginity and yes it hurt! But, Just because everyone else did it when they were young doesn't mean you should. I wouldn't say I'd take back losing my virginity when i did, because i'm now 21 and still with the guy I lost it to. But not all guys are like that. You should save it for some one special. Not just some guy who says he loves you to get into your pants. Wait until the feelings are right. If your afraid of it hurting then your oviously not ready to have sex yet. When the time comes, hopefully a couple years older, you'll know. You never plan to lose your virginity, its something truly special and something to lose to someone you truly love. Good Luck!
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been there done that! lol

Listen to these ladies. wait. Nothing good can come w/ sex at 14. It's a sure-fire way to ruin not only your rep, but your life, as well. Wait. you'll be glad you did.
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Much regret

Yes 4 like a few seconds but it starts feeling good. I just lost my virginity the other day & im 14 too.

Please dont.ur 2 young. wait a couple more years.

you're too young..chances are you wont end up with the person you lost your virginity to because your life is going to change a lot in the next few years. you may think otherwise but so does everyone. nothing in my life is the same as it was when i was 14. i thought i knew so much. You probably think you are ready, but you're really not. trust everyone elses answers, dont do it.

It depends on you and your boyfriend. If you are nervous or he is not patient, it can hurt a LOT. Take some advice from an "old lady" who has been there, done that. it's no fun telling your parents you are pregnant and it's a b*tch being the only one taking care of a baby while all of your friends are going to school, going out with friends, dating. I got lucky. My baby's dad and I did end up together, and we are happy, but we are the exception to the rule. Most teen relationships that end up in pregnancy fail. Have enough respect for yourself to wait until you are older and wiser. It's not worth the risk, and it's SO much better with someone you have a commitment with. I am not saying wait for marriage, just wait until you are old enough to be sure you will be with the guy in a year. Good luck. :)

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