how can a Gayguy enjoy his life?

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I had to answer because I read some stupid and untrue answer here.
Unluckily, there always is ignorance and homophobia around!
First, homosexuality isn’t against-nature or disgusting as some racist and moron people affirmed. It’s just your nature, because depending by genetic factors as well as the skin colour, therefore just a natural inclination.
Thus, it can’t even be a choice or a social preference, and as a straight people can’t become ga as a gay can’t become straight!
People oughtn’t to be judged thro their sexual tendency, and on the 20th century such prejudice and taboo are unacceptable and ridiculous.
About your question, I think that you can and must enjoy your life!
It just is a right for you and a duty for the society.
Live serenely your sexuality and without shame.
Try to don’t listen whoever says the contrary.
Within the story, a lot of important personages were gay and they lived with the hope that in the future some thing could change. Alessandro Magnus, Tiberius, Neron, Adriano, Edward II, Enrich IV de Castile, James I, Gustav III of Sweden, Peter the Great, Fredrik II of Prussia, Umberto II of Savoy, Wu , Caravaggio, Lord Byron , Oscar Wilde, Giacomo Leopardi, Truman Capote, Almodóvar, Fredrick Garcia Lorca, Andy Warhol , Freddy Mercury, James Dean, Joan Baez , Sacha Sacket, Lou Reed , Elton John, etc. etc. etc.
If you accept your “natural” condition, you even will be pride of it.

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my sweetie

he can't, actually ..

because it's counter-nature , anti-logic , and , beside , disgusting

being gay is a choice - sociologically speaking, one tries to find an alternative if s/he is unsatisfied with what is being dictated by society. i disagree with people saying that being gay should be kept, that being gay is bad, that being gay is disgusting.

a gay person can and should enjoy life just like women and men do. knowing in one's self who s/he really is, and accepting it, would allow him/her to become much more confident about the things s/he does, thus, enjoying life much, much more.

there are a lot of gay people who lets other's criticism affect their outlook on life, limiting them to the constraints of societal mockery - and they become very much confused, and very much unhappy. and there are lots of gay people who have accepted who they are and faced the criticisms and challenges, and they are very happy - and lots of them very successful.

be proud of your choices, be proud of who you are. being gay is not being a third-class human.
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i am not gay, i do, however, have lots of gay friends and i've seen lots of them do very good in their chosen fields. i support their endeavors just like i support women and men.

i disagree with whole_feelings. i graduated social psychology and i have had lots of interaction with gay people (male and female), bisexuals and of course, gay groups. we all know for a fact that being gay can never be your "natural condition." being gay is a culmination of how people are raised, what environment they grew up in, and as one answer said, choice. now, since being gay is NOT natural, it has been proven that straight people can become gay, and gay people can become straight. environment contributes a lot to this, and so does choice.

of the gay people that i have had the opportunity to spend time with, i have seen a lot of them succeed in what they do because they have fully embraced their choices - they can face the criticisms and blockage set up by the ignorant and those who do not understand that being gay is just the same as being a man or a woman. they are happy, confident and fulfilled.

gay people should treat themselves as regular men and women treat themselves. gay people are not different from them anyway. if others see that you have respect in yourself, no matter your gender, they will give you respect - respect of your upbringing, of your choices, and most of all, respect of who you really are.
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try reading this book:
C. Stevens (San Diego State U.), "Imagining Deregulated Desire: Revolutionary Reconstruction of Gender and Sexuality" (1997)

I disagree with” sanchez.grace” and wondered reading he even is graduated in social psychology.
I would like to know how many gay patients became happy and definite “straight” people really, among the great number of patients he had.
Lately, the scientists view isn’t as firm and unilateral as his (old) conception.
"Like all complex behavioral and mental states, homosexuality is.neither exclusively biological nor exclusively psychological, but results from an as-yet-difficult-to-quantitate mixture of genetic factors, intrauterine influences.postnatal environment (such as parent, sibling and cultural behavior), and a complex series of repeatedly reinforced choices occurring at critical phases of development."
It’s useless to prolong and the following addresses just are the first web sites I found on line about the concern, meaning that many and better others there will be surely.
Aside from many specific books, I thought that internet hint had just to be more appropriate and suitable for the typical yahoo’s public.
http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/assault/genetics/
http://www.cs.cmu.edu/afs/cs/user/scotts/ftp/bulgarians/nih-upi.html
http://www.narth.com/docs/bornway.html
http://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2004-10/rs-rsj101104.php
http://www.newscientist.com/article.ns?id=dn6519
http://www.skeptictank.org/gaygene.htm
http://www.leaderu.com/orgs/narth/homorig.html

Whats with the 4 paragraph long answers. This is easy. Just be your gay self and have a good time.

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