How do i deal with my parents dating others.?
Question:
My mom and dad got divorced when I was little, my mom got married then my dad too. Mom got divorced then has been dating for a while and her current boyfriend I DO NOT like at all, he doesn’t like me either. Just recently my dad got divorced and I’m worried that he’ll start dating and it will be just like at my moms. FYI I love my parents but at my mom’s I don’t like it very much because HE’S(the boyfriend) is there a LOT and I can’t enjoy myself he just makes me very miserable (my mom hates this and therefore is angry at me) ,anytime he is there I want to find someplace far away from there or something. I don’t want to live my life like this at my dad’s too. I usually find seclusion and peace in reading (I read about 4-5 books a month at least) and it works ok. So my question is how do I deal with my parents dating.
(sorry if I seem selfish or something)
Answers:
For the record you are not selfish. This is an issue that is common with children and when their parents are dating. If you have a problem with this guy it is understandable, but the worst thing you can do is act out because of it. Now is not the time to be rebellious. Try your best not to make an issue of this with your father because it will only make the situation worse. Try to understand that your mom is dating and it may not last anyway. Just don't let this man take your for granted and treat you wrong, but at the same time know that he may be treating your mom great. Sit back and try to keep the peace and in the mean time do things that you enjoy to do like reading or playing sports. Good luck and I really sympathize for you.
Other Answers:
Have you talked to them about your feelings? Why not just wish them happiness.
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