I have an embarrassing question about sex.?
Question:
I know some friends of mine have said masterbation helps, but I don't like that stuff. What can I do?
Answers:
its a small problem with some men.. ask him to pleasure up by trying differnt positions, new ways, longer foreplays, oral sex (best) for your orgasm and he know what for his. anyways check this link.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/fp_index.shtml
Note: Make yourself mentally comfortable or else u'll never be able to make it up..
TC.Enjoy..
Other Answers:
You may not be able to have a vagina orgasm trying stimulatin your clitoris during sex, either with ahis fingers rubbing it or a bullet this wil intesify and possibly cause a clitoral orgasm
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Get a vibrator and let him use it on you.
Let him perform oral sex with you if you don't masturbate
get some new toys that vibrate both of yall. Try different positions. relax more often.
Your boyfriend should stimulate you first long before he gets hard only with a kiss. Let him know that you want to have an orgasm and he will have his work cut-out for him to help you get it. Don't "stroke" your boyfriend until you get hot and wet. Bring a "toy" into the bed with you. Have your boyfriend place a vibrator on your inner thighs then slowly move it close to your clitoris and work it all around that area. He should notice if you are being stimulated by the way your body is moving. Then you can allow him to lick your nibbles and help to get you even wetter. You both should know when it's time to allow him to penetrate you. But don't allow the stimulation of your clitoris to stop, or you may loss that sensation. You may even want to have part of a xxx-rated movie set to the "good" part when you feel you may be getting near to having your orgasm. Wish I could be there to watch you come.
That is not embarrassing
If your own body makes you uncomfortable, you will never be able to relax enough to have one!
Get a vibrator, it will blow your mind.
what is wrong with masterbating- its a very important part of your body and like every other part of your body it is part of you. Start making friends with it- that may sound strange/weird, but it is also true. If you have been taught that touching yourself is rude or perverted, then they are wrong. Learning to pleasure yourself and then geting boyfriend to learn what pleasures you, will make you both that much more happier.
get a new boyfriend
Stop being a prude and start masterbating. Orgasm is a wonderful feeling that should not be missed. Once you "get to know" yourself you will be happier. Sex is even better when you have an orgasm as well. It will not happen every single time (unless you are a lucky ****) but it might give you a sense of accomplishment. lol. or something.
I am assuming your still young. I started having sex when I was 13 and could only *** by oral sex. Until I was 30. Now I can *** for an hour straight. It is the most amazing feeling and well worth the weight. Just relax and let it happen.
you can try having to use a sex toy first then have the sex and then you may be able to have one
Since you don't like masturbation then let him perform oral sex on you. You can also try using sex toys. Ones that vibrate work best. Also relax.
Relaxation is the key. Maybe try some things to help, massage, aromatherapy, or even a hot bath before hand. Like you, I don't like using my hands down there, but have found that a small clitoral vibrator does the trick. Even if you use it before sex, it will help to take you to the edge.
Different sexual positions may also help, missionary but get your legs supported up high. Try a few positions and don't be afraid to move around a little till it feels right for you.
I for one have never been able to orgasm during intercourse WITHOUT helping it along (use my finger on my clit). Once I got over my shyness of men seeing my face during my orgasm (10 yrs ago), I've NEVER had a prob reaching climax. Every woman learns how to climax in differnt way. One things is for sure, you NEED to learn how to climax, "that stuff/ masturbating" sounds like something you should consider experimenting with as a good start.
I agree w/ Jackass: get a nu bf. I mean, it's been two years. He's obviously too selfish to notice - Guys are not 100% satisfied if the girl isnt, unless we don't care bout her. or you're maybe tellin him the opposite of the truth, which is still noticeble (if one cares and wants) Anyway, two years of wasted sex is just sad. Performance is the key in great sex. Communication is healthy, but performance is the key.
get him to rub you up while your having sex. its awesome.
master yo self add toys and oral try longer fore play relax and enjoy
Relax and dont think about it, just enjoy the moment and try doing positons with alot of friction so that u get a lot of clitoral stimulation. Doggy is great too so try that and get him to rub ur clitoris while he is doing it. missionary is always good too if he lays on top of u cos that causes some friction. and if all of those fail, get him to go down on u, I' sure that will work.
you gotta find what you like and tell him. you should tell him this and if he loves you then he will want to take care of u too
You need to relax. If your mind isn't there than your body won't be. Grab his hand and put it on your ***** and show him how to please you. He will probably enjoy that as well as you. Just relax Chicky!
When I was with my boyfriend I'd play with my clit while we were in action. It took me 4 years to *** with him. Get totally immersed in what your doing. Body, mind, soul, with an environment to match your deepest fantacies. Maybe do a little yoga to get your mind off of every day life. Watch a porn before you go at it. Have a little chocolate or, better yet all three! If you're having sex just to get an orgasm, it won't come. A little trick I've learned. when he's on top of you, move your hips up and in towards him so he's totally inside you. Keep moving your hips wherever feels best, play with your clit while your at it, stare at his body and into his eyes and keep telling yourself how sexy he is and how much you want him. Use a vibrator while your at it. If all else fails, get a book to better educate yourself or even call a sex therapist. Life is too short to have limited O's.
you may have to do things you do not like in order to get the things you like.brave
some girls cant have orgasms. it really just depends.
talk to him about it
you could start out with oral sex then move to sex. or have him stimulate your clit while having sex
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