what should i do about my life if i'm gay and live in a country where gays are hated, beaten and even killed?
no one knows i am gay.. and people treat gays like criminals or terrorists.. they don't understand that people don't choose to be gay. it's just who i am.. i have no control over this.. i think it is a sickness which cannot be cured unfortunately.. i don't know what to do.. to tell my parents, friends? my life will be over.. they all will hate me.. to try seek asylum or immigrate to a civil country? i don't know.. live my whole life like this, hiding and acting? it's a nightmare. by the way, can i apply for a political asylum in the U.S.? if i get a citizenship in a civil country i will at least be able to escape prosecutions and be able to tell everyone who i am. i don't know. i feel so lonely.. maybe i just should kill myself and all problems will be resolved.
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You should find a way to move to a country where you can live your life.
I do not know whether you can apply for political asylum in the U.S., though you can apply for permanent residency by finding employment here in the U.S.
I hope you leave your country, and find happiness somewhere.
I don't know what education you have, or what skills you have, but you should absolutely be able to find work no matter what your background.
Go for it. The world is large.
Find the part of it where you belong.
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Don't come to the US. I would convert to being a heterosexual. Being gay is a choice. I want to kill my boss sometimes, but I make the choice to not to. Thats just the way it is.What kind of items would you like to see in a store catering completely to Diabetics?
dont kill yourself, that is not the answer! you need to leave everything behind and start afresh in a place where people are tolerant and not biggotted. good luck!Is buying expensive make up worth it?
DONT TELL PEOPLE! ecspecially the friggin internet if ur that afaidMove dude. I doubt they will give you asylum but there are groups that may be willing to help you. Be careful and good luck.
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You need to be true to yourself. But, in a country where you risk death for your gender preference it is a sad, sad thing. IF you are able to leave your country and go to one that is more tolerant of gays, this would be the best idea. You may need to leave family and friends behind, but you will not need to live a lie. Good luck to you.whats the easiest way to get a flat stomach?
IF YOUR QUESTION IS NOT A JOKE, I APOLOGIZE.I Don't know what country you're in, but America seems more accepting of the gay community. Of course, some people are not.
Don't kill yourself, that's NEVER the answer. Try to locate support groups in your country. Go to your local library, do research on other countries you might be interested in. Remember, love has no sex, it's just love
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just get with a female at least once and experience the greatness of that then see if your still gay. If ya are then yeah you should prolly move.what is the best diet to lose weight radidly?
Move to San FranciscoDon't kill yourself! I didn't know that this much close mindness still existed anywhere. But you do have options. Leave where you are, and don.t look back. But, I do not believe that you can apply for political asylum just because your gay.
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DO NOT KILL YOURSELF! I am a Christian and believe homosexuality is evil and it is - but I do not condone anyone harming a gay person, and I certainly would not want to see you kill yourself.One is not born gay. Something always happens to lean someone to that way of life - while not exactly the same, there are murderers who say they cant help themselves, that they were born that way.
Choices. Stop feeding your mind garbage and you can pull away from it and not worry about those crazed idiots trying to harm you.
Jesus provides you with a means of escape from this abnormality and can free you from that torment you face. He died for you so that you will not have to suffer the same fate as the rest of sinful mankind.
Homosexuality is a sin just like any other sin like, theft, robbery, lies, murder.., just name it. Jesus loved you enough to give his life that you may have life. All you have to do is listen to what he says.
As a straight saved male, I am not better than you, just saved by Grace. And you can be too!
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poor guy, i knw ur feeling jus dun kill urself. There's a lot of path in ur life it's jus tat u dun see it and besides, u said no one knws ur gay right? So jus move on dun tell anybody about it and who knws someday u'll change to heterosexual and hv a beautiful wife. Suicide is not a way coz life is full of hopes, one door shuts another one will open but if u choose suicide u'll face severe punishment in hell.believe me.. good luck..Average Penis Size (length and girth)?
Britain is very Gay friendly. Check it out.Well,,,,,,,,,,,first of all Don't kill yourself!! That is not an Option it will cause your family shame and grief and sadness. 2nd, don't lie to yourself and say that you have no control and you have a sickness that cannot be cured.that is a lie. You have to choose to change and to take control..as with any other addiction or un-Godly desires.. we have to fight the good fight, send the bad thoughts away when they come to our minds instead of focusing on them. Stay away from things that bring on the bad feelings or thoughts instead of indulging in them.You can do it. And you will feel sooooo much better about yourself too. 3rd. Pray seek Gods advice..you can't go wrong with him he won't lie to you and he always has our Best interest at heart. Good luck and God Bless. Be Strong.
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I think the only option for you is to move away from there,and come to the U.S and be who you are.Write your family a letter and mail it after you leave.The U.S is very supportive of gays. You would be able to stop living a lie. don't give up, killing yourself won't fix anything. I would think your friends and family would rather deal with there homophobia than a dead loved one who didn't even try to reach out. Good luckI don't hate you or feel that you should be persecuted. However, I agree with "arrogant". Yes, you do have control over the choice of gender you become partners with. Please think about this: I advise against moving. Your confusion and guilt will be with you no matter where you live. You will be persecuted in any country - even the US. Please consider: if your actions cause you, possibly your friends, family and society this much turmoil, is it the right choice? Is it worth it? Do you what to live the rest of your life in this state or try something (heterosexuality) that will bring more peace?
I recommend taking along break from relationships until you figure out what it is you need to do.
Also, heterosexual relationships aren't easy either. They weren't meant to be. With the natural differences between men and women, relationships can be challenging, at times. Despite these challenges, I feel that heterosexuality is the best choice for oneself, society and our species. Males and females were intended to become partners to balance each other, help each other using our different qualities and to learn from. On a sexual level, it's what nature intended from the beginning of our species.
I hope that this helps.
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