I have two daughters legally blind and i feel so desesperate with my life what can i do to make it easier?
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daughters are our own. u gave birth to them, dun show your desperate to them cos' they may feel it. Blind doesnt mean not blessed or useless. They just cant do 1 thing, that is to "see", Make them to feel their are useful, they may find difficulty but they will build their self esteem once they find they are ok in doing some activities. Sometimes, being blind does not mean bad, at least they dont see any cruel or scary things in their life. Accept them as they are. it is not easy to be a parent but maybe getting easier once you are close to your daughters. You may find something that we dun know. They are just as valuable as normal people. Nobody knows what will happen in the future, who knows that they will grow in good-hearted people. I also have a sister that is not able to speak in her age (6 yrs old) She even doesnt know how to hold a thing. We are worry if she will not getting to school. But we are just love her as she is. She may recover someday.We always have this thougt. I believe that our thought n willing can make a miracle :) hope this makes you better, cheer up
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GIVE THEM INTO AN INSTITUTION FOR THE BLIND
There's resources for the blind, being visually impaired doesn't make you worthless, just down to 4 senses from 5.
research resources for the blind on the web, there's a lot out there.and there's a world of difference between legally blind and completely blind.www.google.com.
dont know why the desperation-if you just need someone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on shout at me im a good listener-life is not always easy but consider your choices and i will take life every time-remember your not alone even though it feels that way sometime-sending lots of love and peace your way-old hippie
I think the first thing you should do is acknowledge that you can't do it on your own, find help from someone.an organisation of some sort. Don't let your life revolve around caring for them. Once in a while do something for YOU! Even if that something is as simple as going for ice-cream on your own, going to watch a very funny movie and binging on popcorn and soda!! Just have some ME time coz it's only when you're energised and are thinking straight that you can be of greater help to them. Oh, how old are they? Try talking to them! Ask what they think you can do to help them and tell them what they can do to make things easier for you! you're not a failure.I'm sure you're doing the best you can and I have much respect for people like you!
Without knowing more details about you, it’s hard to answer that question. The most important issue is ensuring that proper support is there for your children. That said; don’t forget that you need to take care of yourself also. You should try to set aside some time for yourself at least once every two weeks. If you don’t have the family or financial support to do so, contact your local social services. If things are getting too stressful for you, perhaps you should consider counseling. Again, social services can point you in the right direction.
i sympathies with you, accepting your fate is the first step then all other things will follow, good luck
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