i have a wife and five kids, but she still suspects me that i have other girl friends?

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most do. i've been married for 30 yr and get the same thing. with first mife it was she that was cheating and accusing me to justify her guilt. one now doesn't do that garbage.

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well what have you ever done that makes your wife suspect this. Surely she wouldn't think bad things about her own husband without reasons. x

can u prove it that u dont have another girl friend? and how did she accused you of having another girl friend. there is no smoke if there isnt a fire.

If you're not fooling around tell her.. If she doesn't believe you then there is actually not much you can do about it.. You are not responsible for what another person thinks or does..you are responsible for what you think and do You keep your side of the street clean and leave other people to clean theirs.. She sounds as if she's feeling very insecure or hurt ask what you can do for her.. Just show her all your love and effection,if you feel it,so that you can reasure her where your loyalties lie..

Where do you find the time for a girlfriend? After all you are on this web site asking us what to do.
If I had a wife & five kids tho I think I would get a girlfriend

you say she STILL suspects me which may mean that she had reason to suspect you before?? does hse have reason to ?? if there is remedy it coz women have a strong sicth sense and she can sense when you are up to no good..

There must be something shes taking wrong or not getting that is making her feel that way. I suggest you take her out for the night or weekend NO KIDS and just discuss it. Open up your lines of communication between one another and ask her why or what is making her feel that why? Same for you tell her how you feel. Do this a i can almost guarantee her suspicion will dissipate.

There are different kinds of jealousy, and it is entirely possible that the kind your wife is exhibiting is psychopathological in nature (and therefore delusional). It is entirely irrational in nature, and has absolutely nothing to do with you. It is called "delusional jealousy", and it is an entirely different animal than jealousy based on evidence (think in terms of the evolutionary value of jealousy for the female: her offspring (genes) carry on because the male is taking care of her offspring). The website below attempts to make a distinction between ordinary jealousy and Deusional Jealousy:
"Healthy people become jealous only in response to firm evidence, are prepared to modify their beliefs and reactions as new information becomes available, and perceive a single rival. In contrast, morbidly jealous individuals interpret conclusive evidence of infidelity from irrelevant occurrences, refuse to change their beliefs even in the face of conflicting information, and tend to accuse the partner of infidelity with many others (Vauhkonen, 1968).”

This website is a product of professionals in the field of psychiatry, and you will learn about such things as Psychopathology and Diagnosis, Risk factors associated with the development of this psychiatric disorder, management, prognosis…Read and learn. It's NOT your fault!
Source(s):
*Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (IV), published by the American Psychiatric Association
*Article on Delsional Jealousy found at <http://apt.rcpsych.org/cgi/content/full/10/3/207>

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