my 13 year old son is very distructive and I don't know why. does any1 have any idea why?

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Get his father to beat his ***, Or pay some guys to beat his ***. Don't tell him you paid them though.

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It is called hormones.

He could be Bi-Polar or just needs to see a therapist to resolve this problem.

Maybe someone at school is making him angry. Their is a good reason, you just have to find out what or why.
He may have been molested by someone he trusted, never now, until he's asked. He may not be able to tell you though.

Teenagers like me are all like that.Its hormones.Every 13 year old can be destructive.

take him to the doctor NOW.it might be mental or medical such as a sickness that involes mold or paint chip,s if you live or visit a older home or buisness.

well being a psychology student i must say dat there are mny reasons behind dat.mayb he sees da role model of him as being destructive n agressive ,or mayb he may see such behaviour in his home n school.but thro researches it has been proved dat even video games wid voilence effect da behaviour of a chid very much,programs on tv ,movies he watch can be da major cause of his being destructive.keep an eye on his priorities n activities,his peer group n da games ,books n movies etc he watchs n likes dat will make u understand da major cause of his being destructive.
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I HAVE A 12 YR OLD THAT IS THE SAME WAY.. most of it is hormones but there might be an underlying problem. is he abusive? VERY moody? there could be a mental issue. call his school guidance counselor and have him/her talk to him. sometimes just talking to someone helps.

you should put him on a very long punishment then he probably will stop or just don't let him watch TV and take all his gameboys in all that kind of stuff or just whip him with a belt.

Is he angry and destructive?

Or is he just clumsy?

Very big difference. If he is just clumsy, don't worry about it too much, kids grow out of that.

If he seems angry, you might just need to spend more time taking to him and getting to know him. Lead by example - show him things that you care about and talk about the importance of taking care of people and things. Simply telling him that you love him will go a long way.

well may be he is just trying to get attention or trying to fit in i mean allot of kids are starting to act that way under the influence of their friends!

Rule out biochemical problems in the brain first! Lead and other heavy metals can cause bahavioral problems. Nutrient imbalances and/or problems with gut function (any use of antibiotics or over the counter pain killers; e.g. motrin/advil) can also cause brain dysfunction.
Good luck.

He could be on drugs or be doing it for the attention. or family problems going on in the house. Or he could be haven problems at school. Try to talk to your doctor.He seems very angry.

I HAVE A 10 YEAR OLD AND HE IS THE SAME WAY WE FOUND OUT THAT HE HAD ADD AND ADHD SO I THINK THAT YOU NEED TO HAVE HIM SEEN AND IF THEY TELL YOU TO GIVE HIM MEDS TELL THEM TO GO TO HELL THERE IS A LOT THAT YOU CAN DO TO HELP HIM IT NOT HIS FAULT BUT DO NOT BABY HIM TREAT HIM THE SAME WAY YOU WOULD BUT GIVE HIM MORE TO DO
GOD BELSS ANDY J MIERA

Well, there are various factors for this to happen, he is a teenager, and that'a a pretty tougth age for him, and it will be for you too.

All what i'm gonna tell you, will be usefull if you get a close and sincere relation with your son, if you get him to listen, and if he thinks you are someone he can trusts, if that is not true by now, you should use some help on people who is closer to him like his father, or some uncle.

They are growing more quicly than before, that can make them see kind of clumsy, you have to help him realize this, in order he tries to do things more carefully.

They are thinking in a hole bunch of things, they migth be distracted most of the time, that is something you and him can work on too, you know, help him realize that he have to try to concentrate harder on important things.

He migth being distructive in order to get your or his father attention, if you realize that's the case, try to get closer to him, take him out to dinner someday, just the two of you, don't force him, try this slowly, and wait for him to give some steps in return for you to make the next.

Try this almost as you would with a new boy wich you want to get close, do you remember trying to conquer a boy, it's pretty close, you have to get to his heart again. The love they had for you when they were kids, was unconditional, but this is over.

I have an 11 years old boy, and i'm getting ready for this changes from this moment.

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