Indian ladies.advice me..How can I control my feelings?


Question:
Im 24 years old.I married with a heart patient.I knew only after my marriage.My husband is not fit for intercourse.They hide the fact.
Apart from that, my husband's family is good.Im not dieng for sex.
But, the media, the environment, the youthness of mine is tempting me.
Dont suggest me the divorce.My own family cant afford that as I've 2 younger sisters.
I've decided to stick with my fate. But how could I control my body's call? How can I control my self?
Please dont tease me.Already Im hanging in cross.

Answers:
Dear lady,

i really simpathize on you! one- what did your husband tell u if he is not fit for intercourse did he just keep quiet ignore or suggested you of something? second- talk to him about your feelings and more over its your life and u have a huge life in front of you don you wanna have children in future how will u b satisfied without sex. just by being with his family and him, unless you are not at all interested in it u may continue,if u think u break this marriage can u support yourself instead of being on yr parents if yes go ahead support yr self then marry someone else coz this is no good to b with a person where there is no future. your inlaws are very good bcoz they cheated u and yr family hiding their sons fact.and so they will remain good. If you wanna continue u may with him being a nurse yr whole life. If not have an extra affair to fulfill yr needs talk to him about it. or just hide it..

Other Answers:
sorry got no ideas unless you just go out and pick up a quickie hear n there

buy yourself a sex toy. Sexual needs are nothing to be ashamed of. You could probably find a reputable company online that is discreet. You could even use it with your husband there, if that is not too exciting for him. If it is or it will be offensive to him thenhide it from him. Some secrets are better left kept. And it would be worse if you ended up ending your marriage over well, just horniness. I don't mean to be crass, really I don't, but sometimes sex toys can be a blessing for women in your type of situation. You could even use one of those back massager things if you didn't want a sex toy and try thinking about your hubby while using it and that way you will feel more connected to him.

U try with ur end with orally.

try some sex toys
tell him to give forplay & oral
so many things can do



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