Help me figure this out, I'm getting hurt too often!?
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You're getting hit at school by your classmates because they think you're a dork?? Umm.first, if you're comfortable I would report it to someone. Second, I would take a kickboxing class or something and learn how to defend yourself - not that I condone that sort of behavior, but you'll learn self-esteem and self-discipline and your confidence will grow and maybe you wont get picked on as much. Third, and I know it doesn't help now.but in a few years, those jerks will be losers and you'll be finishing up college, and you'll go on to live a rewarding life, while those losers are probably still beating up other kids and living with their parents! It'll get easier, trust me.
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Carry a camera and tape recorder.
Go to a teacher, guidance counselor, principal, your parents.
They are your advocates. You shouldn't suffer this in silence.
mabey try getting close friends who can help
go to your principal. or get some one to kick their a.s.ses
you know what you need to ignore them that just gets on my nerves email me
Try to get into a different school.
get some close friends or tell ur teachers
remember this valuable quotation from oxford's medical pocket book - society makes them scapegoat whom they want to. unfortunately u have been victimised.develop a positive attitude.introspect urself and find out the positive points in ur character and strengthen them. have confidence. u r no joke to anybody unless ur conscience terms u so.
First, take care of the physical abuse by contacting a counselor, a teacher or even the principal. If they ignor your plea, tell your parents that they are ignoring you. Don't be afraid to drop names, if they make an example out of one, they all would be scared and the abusers would quit one-by-one. Only if you properly do something about it.
Second, Ignore your classmates. They could label you all they want. Once you are in college, the joke is on them. In college, stuff like that doesn't happen.
Once you are successful, buy all the cool clothes you can't afford right now. I know you're smart. So use that to ignore criticism.
man girl i feel for you, but your gonna have to stick up for yourself. what ever it takes. Im not saying be like them and b violent,but it seems to me that people like that have more respect for people who stick up for themselves. think of things that would make them feel stupid, and then tell them HOW DOES IT FEEL!! everyone has imperfections,, EVERYONE.
Go to the principal or a teacher, no one should have to put up with that abuse! If it's inguring your self-est eem Think of it this way, I am smart and are in advanced classes, I have enough money to buy clothes but I don't because THAT doesn't matter. I would suggest finding a group of peoplr that suffer like you do and make friends , you'll find that they are often cooler than other bullies
Amie every ugly duckling developes into swan so try to stay out of their way and continue studying hard, it will pay off in the end.Good Luck
They are just jealous, because they live life trying to please everyone everyday. I agree with the others about going to a principal or teacher about it. WHAT EVER YOU DO, STAY IN THE ADVANCED CLASSES SO THAT YOU CAN GET INTO A GOOD COLLEGE AND PURSUE A GREAT CAREER. When they see how you are living once you get your degree, they will wish that they were in your shoes.
Go to a teacher, guidance counselor, principal, your parents. and if that doesn't work try to cope or record it and bring it to the police.
Go see the school councler, thats his/her job to help you.
Wear a metal plate under your clothes where they will hit and hurt their hand.
I hope and pray that the situation will resolve soon.
Report the physical abuse promptly no one has the right to put a hand on you
the verbal abuse hold your head up and say nothing the dopes hopefully will get bored if they get no reaction from you their fun is in seeing you suffer.
im sorry these kids are doing this to u. don't let that stop u from doing great in school. pray for them and let GOD handle it. some people are jus evil but i promise you if u pray to GOD about it and be sincre he will work it out in your favor. they going to get whats coming to them. what goes around comes around and some body going to do them worst. let GOD fight your battle. u got the victory even if u dont scoop to their level.
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i know from experience
Don't bother asking for help. If the adults cared to help you they already would've. Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do about it either.
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