How long does it take a typical woman to orgasm?
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I have discovered that in many areas of life it may be possible to speak meaningfully about ‘typical women' or typical men. However, in the sexual arena, far fewer women are ‘typical’ than most people and most women would suspect, even about themselves. It’s a very rare woman that doesn’t have the potential to occasionally respond ultra-quickly; and fairly regularly to achieve hyper-orgasmic expression (say 12-20 orgasms in two or three sessions within 4-8 hours).
Your question, nevertheless, is a good one and deserving of a well thought out answer.
In general, it depends upon the woman. Women's sexual nature is far more complex, singular and even exotic than most men's is. Some women, once involved with a lover that’s taught them to maximize their sexuality, can under some conditions be brought or bring themselves to orgasm in less than a minute, occasionally as quick as 20 seconds. In fact such women can at times, put great, occasionally unwanted, pressure on a man in ‘quickie’ situations. LOL! Should you find yourself involved in such a 'quandry,' just remember that fingers were made before, ahem, 'forks.'
On the other hand, a rare few women may never orgasm. Though I suspect that emotional history or abusive background is largely to blame, I’m not an expert on this . . . and have only run into one such female, and she might have suffered from a physiological condition. Not being a doctor I can’t say. The vast majority of orgasmless women, say 99.999%, are far closer to being highly orgasmic than to being ‘frigid’ and only await attraction to a skilled and sensitive lover to set them free. That last word, ‘frigid’ is one that I suspect the world would be better off without. It tends to be a lie used by men to attempt covering up their own inadequacies as lovers.
However, women have a responsibility to themselves to discover their own sexual potential and much can be done on their own. I have found that women that never masturbate tend to be less liberated ‘colder’ and more selfish in bed. They tend to believe that sex is dirty stuff and once brought to orgasm tend to ‘get in a rut’ in which they favor only one sexual position and to care less about their lover than women who have proven themselves highly successful in auto-eroticism (masturbation). So I heartily recommend every woman learn about her own body both in a hands off (anatomy lessons) and hands on manner LOL.
For example, I have known several women who needed me to teach them about their clitoris’s existence. Many did not know about the G-spot. Indeed, I’ve never once met a woman who knew about her deep spot (epicenter) before I introduced it to her. Besides ‘hands on,’ every woman ought to own a vibrator. Some men are afraid of vibrators, which is silly.
Believe me it’s no threat to a good lover. Instead a vibrator can be incorporated quite pleasantly into virtually any manner of foreplay and many exotic positions (lady in a swing); or even anal sexuality. By the way, this last 'method'; and deep spot stimulation are the two roads to success I've found most consistent in promoting epicenter orgasms and extreme multiple orgasms: as one of my partners said, "Oh my, I never expected that kind of reaction!" (The keys to success in anal are: introduce her to the sheer ecstasy of a gentle well oiled finger during intercourse, then a second a few days later ever so gently; and then utter gradualism on the big day; lots of lubrication; and the female has the final say in every aspect at every moment. Use a rubber and abject cleanliness must be observed at every stage; never contact anus first then vagina, NEVER.)
One question you might have asked but didn't involves female ejaculation. I've only been involved six times in my life with this phenomenon and only once from intercourse, it's far easier to stimulate a woman to ejaculation by manual means (using two of your fingers) than from intercourse. The website below is pretty exotic but it does help out immensely in teaching about the deep spot, G spot, and female ejaculation. Quite frankly I'm not sure I belive about 50% of the rest of its content. Good luck.
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2 min to 20 min to never depends on the woman
on her own? 1-2 mins.
with her husband? 3-5/7 mins.
with her boyfreind? 10-25 mins.
with a stranger? forget it.
a lady has to perfect the art of multiples in her own spare time.
OUmm,.. Honey, its not about how long it takes. It could happen in an hour or 2 minutes. It depends on how into it she is, and if you take the time to rev-up her engine before starting the race. Multi O's happen and its bliss when they do.
haha that depends on how much you know about what you are doing. lol
really it depends on a lot of factors like how into it she is, stress level, what she is thinking about, what's being done to her, etc.. it can change everytime also. there is no saying well it takes me X number of minutes because factors change daily. so even if you ran an experiment on the same female for a week, you'd probably get drastic differences in the time it takes.
What is a typical woman ? Every woman is different so it would vary according to many factors.
It depends on woman.
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