how do u ask someone to have an sti test without upsetting them?


im only 15 and i am wondering, when you find someone you want to have unprotected sex with, how do you ask them to have a test without them getting offended that you dont trust them. and do people find it normal to be asked this?

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personally if they got offended i wouldn't bother with them.

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Well, for one thing, you are 15 and shouldn't be having sex, unprotected especially. But even with protected sex, you are at risk so, yes, I would ask him to get a test. Just tell them that you are sure nothing is wrong with him but you would just feel more comfortable knowing for sure.it is very normal to ask someone to get tested. More people should infact before they have sex with someone. but please, use protection. it can't hurt anything do use it. the only one hundred per cent fool-proof way to remain safe and not pregnant is to not have sex at all.

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Unprotected at your age isn't the smartest thing to do but I commend you on taking the responsibility to ask a partner to be tested and I would begin with I would be more relaxed and able to enjoy the experience if you went to the Dr and got tested. If the answer is no or you are pressured into sex without the test then you need to know that the guy does not respect you very much and its most likely he's just after sex, give him the flick and wait for someone who really cares.

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Go together. Even if you're a virgin, because then it won't be like "You've had sex before, you must be dirty; I haven't, therefore I'm pure." I've never had a guy ask me to get tested, but if he did, I'd tell him to come with me and get the same thing done. If the person you ask refuses, then s/he doesn't respect you enough, let alone his/her own body enough, to make sure both of you are safe. I can see how someone might get offended, but if you approach it from the fact that you care about them enough to want them to be healthy, I think most people would be understanding. (And if you mean completely unprotected sex, as in no birth control of any kind, then you should both be prepared to be parents.)

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Take careful note of the answers before mine they're all right but the best advice is don't do it.If I'm right you've already had proteced sex with the guy and there's a little pressure from him because "i don't feel it properly honey" or something similar,if this is the case then the guy has probably already had unprotected sex at least once,I know this because I'm nearly 40 and I've only had protected sex two or three times tho' Ive had about 80 partners I've been lucky tho' I have at least 4 illegitimate children I never caught anything.Whatever you do get contraception beforehand.
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If you have the "feeling" that something is up.then it probably is. It is your health/life that is brought into question here so the worry of offending someone is not EVEN an issue. Or shouldn't be. First of all.stop having sex with this person and insist on both of you finding help/answers. If you need to make the suggestion easier than suggest to him that both of you should be tested. Put yourself first in this situation.you have to.


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