i have had 4 miscarriages and now im scared to have sex i don't want to miss carry again HELP?
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do i need help?
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well it wouldnt hurt to talk to a dr about this if your depressed about it. you should see your med dr and have them run test or get to the bottom of whats going on. are you under stress when your prego ? there a million things that could cause woman to miss carry. just have to find out what that 1 in a million thing is.
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Yeah, I believe you should talk to a doctor, he may be able to find a solution. There is always a Chance that you cannot have children, but a lot of women have been told they can't and then they seem to have their "miracle" baby. So it all depends on what you choose, but either way you should see a doctor. There are always alternatives, adoption and such. In the end I wish the best for you hun and your in my prayers.
If it is meant to be it'll happen if not or you've had enough of this emotional stress consider adoption and either have your tubes tied (which is greater to be reversibled in females) or your husband could have his sack sliced open again reversible but not a great as a female.
Sometime enough is enough already when there are other options. Nothing say that a female must bear the weight and pain of labor to be a parent. jeez
In which month do you miscarry ! Is it any specific month or did you just miscarried in different months
Homeopathy can cure that and more !
Please feel free to send me your details if you want a Homeopathic Treatment which will cure you !A detail medical history and what and how you feel in general in your own words will help a lot !
Take Care and God Bless you !
I'm sorry that you've been through so much. There are plenty of us who have been through this. Ignore the people who say that "everything happens for a reason" as that just hurts right now.
I lost 7 before having my two children and my determination to give birth got me through it. Your goal is also to give birth.
You need to have some test though as you may have a blood disorder that fights your foetus, in which case, your goal will not be met and further heartache is on the cards.
There is help out there and communication is your priority.
Speak to your GP.
Good luck.
Hi Woody,
There is a reason for your miscarriages. I have a feeling that your womb is either a bit too low or you are taking on stress. You need to be calm as possible during pregnancy. Don't drink or smoke. Don't do strenuous tasks> lifting heavy buckets, moving furniture etc and don't get too excited. Stay away from persons who upset you and situations that may cause undue stress. Do One thing though, massage the bottom of your womb lil bit ( upwards ). Find out from doctor if your womb has fallen. It is possible that you have depression too. So take precautions by staying inside more often when you are pregnant so that no additional stress will cause you miscarriage. Your blood tests show that all is well so you are good to go.
TC
Love
Angel Doll
i have had 4 miscarriages. and i have been trying for 6 years. i know your scared in case you get pregnant and you might loose this one put it is a chance you will have to take i was the same and im still trying to get pregnant please dont be scared to have sex and i hope you get your family very soon good luck to you
It is understandable that you would be anxious about getting pregnant after having so many miscarriages. However, if this fear is severely disrupting your sex life and marriage, perhaps you should consider taking a break from trying to conceive, just to repair your relationship with your husband. Give yourself some time to heal.
I have included a link to The Miscarriage Manual: Coping with the Emotional Aspects of Pregnancy Loss.
I have also included a link to an article on recurrent pregnancy loss. What blood tests did they run at the hospital? A new body of research on recurrent pregnancy loss shows that miscarriages could be due to immunological problems. Since it is a new area of research, most doctors do not bother to test this. Do you remember Courtney Cox? She had several miscarriages due to immunological reasons. In some women, their bodies will actually attack a growing fetus because the cells believe it is a foreign, malignant object. (I have elevated NK cells, so my body thinks embryos are cancer cells and dispose of it before the end of the first trimester. I only have a 20% chance of carrying a baby to term without treatment). There is treatment for reproductive immunological causes of miscarriage. There is hope.
I also included a link to a directory of mental health professionals that specialize in reproductive issues. There are also several support groups. Check with www.resolve.org Sometimes it helps to talk to people that can thoroughly understand what you are feeling and experiencing.
You probably do need help. But don't feel bad about it. You have experienced 4 losses. You are going through grief. No normal person can experience this much trauma and emerge relatively unscathed.
So, look into the immunology piece and therapy, maintain your marriage, and take care of yourself and your husband.
Source(s):
http://www.inciid.org/article.php?cat=immunology&id=374
http://www.inciid.org/article.php?cat=miscarriage&id=256
http://www.asrm.org/search/asrm_mentalhealth/index.html
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