Guys I need some advice.?

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OK My boyfriend and I have hit a sexual slump. We used to have sex four or five times a week. We have great sex when we do. However last week we only had sex once. Yesterday I asked him if h e was still attracted to me. He got mad that I asked and said that we both have been very busy. Tonight he is staying late after work to do a side job.. So how should I suprise him when he comes home tonight. I need something original

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one week of no sex and you're freaking and giving him a hard time? THAT'S what turns a guy off. nothing is a bigger turn off than getting nagged, especially sex. now that you nagged him last week, he's expecting to get a hard time tonight. surprise him, act like no big deal, then give him a bit of a massage while asking how the day went and pat him on the back for working hard .. big turn on when a woman commends a guy for being a man and earning the money

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Have food ready for him and dont mention nothing about the sex thing if he is in a talkative mood then talk otherwise let him go and sleep.

His doing a long shift probably not in the mood, wait til the weekend :D

You need to give him advance warning so he can get revved up on the way home. Tell him you have something sexy planned for him. Sex is always, always bettter for a guy if he's expecting it.

Best surprise would be this. As he's walking in the door, you are dressed in something flimsy lying on the couch watching a naughty pay per view and visibly enjoying it. Pretend he's not even there and/or make noises as he's walking in the house. He'll jump on you so fast you'll never see the movie!

Besides the obvious fantasy you mention in your question, walking in on a woman who is getting turned on by a naughty video is probably the hottest thing there is.

Black out, stop being so judgemental.

nichole do something that hes wanted for long time it doesnt have to a big suriprise because if he truly loves you he will under stand why you asked that ?

These answers are bloody awful - well some .

But yeah if hes stressed out then he might really not be in the mood for sex - yes guys dont actually always want sex :D

But yeah more romance & less sex - a soooothing massage - non sexual . going to a lovely fun pace together - it doesnt sound as if he is doing anything wrong so he is probably just too stressed out .

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