Why would a healthy 21 year old male not want to have sex with his wife?
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Make him take the Homeopathic Remedy PHOSPHORUS 200 three drops in a sip of water once a day for a week and let me know if it made a difference !
Take care and God Bless !
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Tell him. work things out.
im 18 and i think its because of age also guys are jerks and everyone cheats now a days.not to worry you, you know, sex sucks for me too but ive been through alot in my life to mess that up. Could he be watching porn and masterbating instead of sex? Maybe he feels bad he can not please you? If you think he really is the one then talk to him about it sweety thats the only way and if he flips out its not worth it..trust me..i know.
Man your one hot babe tell him that if he doesnt satisfy you that another guy will and belive me that wont be a problem for u
Perhaps he is just bored spice things up a little. Initiate sex more. Try something new untill you find something that works. If that still isn't working ask him whats up.
Certain medications can affect sex drive.
You need to discuss this with him though for the sake of your self-esteem. The rejection may get to you after awhile.
I was the reverse. It could be depression from something on his side.. but in all cases you will need to communicate with him to get the whole story you two will have to communicate more then normal in times of trouble.
Not to force it but.. sometimes it can be something vary small that sets a man off of sex. something he did or something thats happened that made him feel depressed or down. Either hes worried about something or soemthings happened if he he denies it.. .. well there not much you can do but tell him how much its hurting you.
I hope for the best. and will pray for you.
he's probably having sex with someone else.i have the same issue with my girlfriend, i would love to have sex everyday but my girlfriend does not. i only get it once a week. i wish she lets me bang her everyday, if not, i might find another part time.
KEEP AN EYE ON HIS A$$. He could be cheating on you.
Could be gay. A lot of gay men get married to try and go with the flow. He did what he had to do to get you (HOT SEX) now that he's got you he can just sit back and be in his on personal denial and not have to deal with p the pressures of society on a gay man. All 21year olds I know are like rabbits. I see why you question that. That is strange.
I went to you photo page and if that guy in the picture is your husband GIRL he looks wimpy and gay. (NO COMMENTS ON THE TERM GAY EVERYONE IS EQUAL IN MY EYES) But he looks a little sweet. You to cute for him anyway!
Talk it over. Be honest with each other. This is a subject that guys would rather not discuss. Try seeing a doctor to determine if it is physical or psychological. Think of cialis, viagara and levitra. Someone mentioned that if ladies would dress like Victoria Secret girls, men would act like soap opra guys. (LOL)
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Wow! Am I glad I'm not the only one with this problem. I am in the same situation with my fiance. At first it was all great but now I practically have to beg him for sex. I used to always just ask, Can we have sex now, PLEASE! and would always hint around at it. But what I've found to work is to not even mention it and act like I'm not interested. Apparently my guy likes to work for it. He actually told me that I'm too easy, that he wanted me to play hard to get. Try it a couple of times and see if it works.
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could be many things- but the one sure thing is the need for communication- The time is ripe for couples therapy!
Make him go !- This could be so many things- some of them NOT SO GOOD|
Good Luck !
Coomunication, communication. communication? You are married to the guy - talk to him
He might be under stress at work or suffering form depression. He may just be unwell.
Try some non sexual supportive loving for awhile - get counselling if it helps. Get him checked out by a doctor.
Unlike many of the answers I dont think he is likley to be cheating - it is more likley he is suffering from either mental or physcial fatigue for some reason - you must put aside your sexual needs for a time and help him seek help
at his age he could easily handle two woman sexually thats why i dont think he is cheating instead I suspect he could be quite unwell but being a young guy is denying it or hiding it - be his wife and give him loving support - his life might depend on it!
He could be very stressed at work. Or another girl(Sadly it does happen). He could be ill due to hypertension. Try to gently flirt with him, no pressure just gentle moseying down the garden path so to speak.Easy touching, fingers toulsing his hair fingernails running lightly up his back under his shirt. No kissing just eyecontact. When he iniates that you will be headed to the real garden path to the bedroom or whereever! Just bare fingertip teasing touch. Good luck
he's cheating or you're unattractive(if he's straight). 21 is the height of on'es sexuality.abnormal not to be participating.
Have you gained any weight or let yourself "go" since getting married? Maybe your not as physically attractive to him anymore?
I'm not sure what to tell you, my boyfriend is sometimes like that, but he's 37 and always stressed about something. If the guy in your pic is your husband, he doesn't look too thrilled standing by your side. Maybe he's just depressed about something. Hope everything works out!
3 words. TOO MUCH PORN!
maybe he is either gay or not attracted to you anymore(I dont know why judging by your pic) you might to talk to him about this there could be some martial problems you guys are having. And there is a chance he could be cheating on you with another woman or man
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