My boyfriend only wants sex about every two weeks, we are in our 40's?

Question:

We are in our forties and have been living together for three years. Outside of bed he is very sweet and kind to me. He seems happy to be home at the end of the day. He raps his arms around me while we dance to great music and have candle light dinners. He kisses me good bye in the morning.
But when we go to bed, he doesn't want me to touch him. Even in a non sexual way. He make no advances towards me either. When he is in the mood he will nudge me. He wants me to start things off with oral sex. When he's ready he'll get on top to finish. I've tried to talk about it, but he say his body tempature is to hot from just getting out of the shower or he's had to much beer, or he's to tired, or he'll actually push me away. I know he loves me or I wouldn't be here. But if he's not going to talk about it and admitt their is a problem what can I do to help?

Answers:
It could be he is stressed out about his work,or overly tired,you should really sit down and try to have a conversation with him,and see if there is anything going on in his life that he hasnt been able to express to you.Different people have Different sex drives as well,you really need to work it out with him and compromise.Let him know how your feeling.Also I reccomend that you consider marriage,sometimes the guilt people feel shacking up affects the sex drive.No offense! Good luck!

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have you gained weight?

well,twice a month,have you thought about some xtra enticing,laying on the couch,with just some panties on,or even just a blanket and your birthday suit.I've found out that women that wear some sweet smelling perfumes like lucky you for women is good.

arranage a trip to another city for a week ,and let him forget the work and its problemmake something new in your style and the way of making sex

agree with tara s answer .

Talk to him about it but don't make it a quarrel between both of you. Maybe he's suffering from erectile dysfunction or some other sexual problem as ED is common in this age. consult a physician if he's having problem with sexual health
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