Why do i always lose interest when i get closer to my goal?
Question:
oh and please, gimme some real serious useful advice.. thanks!
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Once you get close to your goal, you then know that you will be able to achieve what you started out to do. This will take away the motivation you had before you knew if the goal was achievable or not. To sum up, the task no longer holds a challenge for you. No challenge = No motivation.
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Cause u are a person who does not finish what he begins. And that's bad. Gotta have sefl control and be determined
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you are competitive and absolutely love a challenge. When getting close to your goal, neither is there, so you start searching for that challenge again. I am the same way, and don't see anything wrong with it.
It is coz of lack of determination it happens also with me
just think - I have to do and I'll do then ur wrk 'll complete
think of a long term goal. make any intermediate goals a step towards the ultimate, and chase it!!. You lack of discipline, and I asssume that you are inteligent, and easy bored. work to be the best, no matter what you're doing.
Because you are only interested in the chase. You are following "goals" you have no real interest in, other than the wanting to achieve that goal.
Also, you could be chosing too large of goals (too long term), so by the time you almost get there, you're already bored.
Try this: Try making simple, short term goals to start, and COMPLETELY achieve them. You need to get into the habit of achieving set goals. Got a big goal you want to conquer? Break it down into smaller, more managable goals!
I feel the same way you do, and sometimes it is because a few of my goals are longer term so I feel like it's taking so long to get there and I want to bail out. Usually when it comes to these goals I always try to keep a positive mindset about it. If I am having a bad day and I feel like the goal is not worth it, I wont make it, I don't think about it anymore until I am in a normal mood. That helps curb the negativity towards it.
My advice would be to set shorter goals inside a long term goal. For example- I am trying to raise my GPA to 3.7 before I graduate. That's 2 years away and I wont feel like studying into the wee hours of the morning every night but instead I break it up by semester. This semester my short term goal is to get 3 A's and a B for my grades. If I reach my goal, it in turn raises my cumulative GPA and I am closer to my long term goal. This way- I am still feeling success after reaching a short term goal, and I am still well on my way to reaching my long term goal too.
Good luck, and don't be afraid to aim high.
like me you really have a problem with auctully being successful. it's a fear thing probably from our parental figures that told us growing up"you won't amount to anything" or things of the like. My mom always told me I was smart but I would be a nobody because I reminded her of My father(she ran with my brother and myself to get away from him)so I always got the crap end of the stick in everything from her. We keep things like that with us,and when we get close to auctully making it,we get scared and would rather ignore it and then we say"nothing ever really works out anyway" Just keep going and try your best not to fall in the same trap we had set up for ourselves. I had to learn this on my own and now I'm 38 years old and on my way to succeed again..but I don't know..
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Well, perhaps you are hard to motivate and hard to move, but when you see the real urgency of something, you start acting. Then when you see that things are moving, you might think that "Hmm OK. that worked but now I really need a rest or would like comfort and not this hard work. I know I can do it when I really need to do it". So that's postponing.
Another could be that you really need to be challenged in order to act, so then your goals aren't "high" enough.
Another is that the goal you put, you actually do not agree with. It could be "What for?" or that u actually don't want to be or do what you set out to do. Be really honest with yourself and see what you find for yourself that you really should do in your life. In other words: Are you on the right track?
U need to be convinced that what you do is necessary to reach the goal that you are convinced of you wanna reach.
Subconsciously, maybe you realized that is wasn't really a goal you had in the first place. I tend to do this after I have put a lot of time and effort into pursuing something. It's very hard to know in the end if it's something I really want and I typically don't know I’m really not interested in it, until I'm almost at the end of reaching the goal, where I give up before completing it.
Your physical body will get you to do all kinds of things that you thought you wanted or needed. It's not until you want something and or get close to it and get it, that you realize that it's not what you desired at all.
Seek Jesus before your desires and he will bless you and show you. God Bless you.
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