Why does it take my husband so long to ejaculate? He find it difficult to hold an erection.?

Question: Because of the erection problem, we often have mutual masterbation and this feels good. We still feel close to each other (I do miss more penetration though). He also takes an awful long time to ***. We do all sorts of things, from phisical to 'roll play'. Any advice?

Answers:
First you want to see if it is physical. Start with the erection problem. See weather or not he gets nocturnal erections. If he does not it is physical and he needs a urologist. For the ejaculation problem check with a urologist first to rule out any physical problems. If neither problem is physical there are so many things it could be.
Number 1 is a medication side effect.
The second thing is call TMS or traumatic ma$turbatory syndrome. Does your husband ma$turbate in the prone position? This is laying on his belly thrusting against something. If so he needs to stop doing that and ma$turbate in the normal way.
Next are any type of depression or anxiety disorders (this includes general, social, PTSD, OCD etc).
Can he ejaculate more quickly or maintain an erection by himself but not with a partner?
You need to explore all the possibilities to find the root cause of his problem so that it can be treated. He may just need your help but he may also need to see a urologist or psychiatrist.

Other Answers:
One possibility is that he's bored, and/or he's had it so much in the past with so many others everywhere and in every way that nothing's new or stimulating enough?
Or. he's too old or. he has a physical/medical problem?

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hes getting old buy him some Viagra

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I know when I was a kid. you finish real fast. as you get older, it takes a long time to finish.

maybe it has to do with nerve endings. as a kid they are sensitive. older the nerves are less sensitive.

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it is good to hear you are a caring person..get him to a doctor there can be a variety of reasons for this happening..maybe introduce a v*br*tor into your relationship, til then..

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is he circumcised? cut men lose sensitivity as they get older on top of what they lose when first cut

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