feeling better after being cheated on?


Question:
am i ever going to feel fully right after i have been cheated on? i loved this woman in a DEEP way. it hurts but i want to keep trying. Am I ever going to be able to love her he way I did before? Am I ever going to feel the way I did before?

Answers:
Hey man I know where you are coming from. My wife just told me that cheated on me with another man about 2 months ago. I went nutts, but not too bad. Luckily she told me at our preachers house. After she told me I did not know what to do. Because in the bible it states that that is the only reason for divorce. I sat down and talked with her and the preacher. We agreed that we would stay together. I wanted to leave her but then I didn't. I love her so much, and not only because we have kids. I am still having a hard time getting over it. Like I said it has already been 2 months since she told me and I still can not sleep nor trust her. There are still times when I want to leave but I can't because I love her too much. Also you don't want to go out and do the same thing she did. It won't do any good, except have a burden on your shoulders. Just hang in there man. Pray about it and see what God wants you to do. God Bless!

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oh man, i know what you're going through. i was cheated on by my boyfriend of more than 2 years, and its still killing me after 6 months of us being apart. i dont think that i can ever love or give myself to someone like how i did to him. im actually very insecure right now.. but im hoping that all of this is just temporary

WELL MAYBE YOU CAN GE HER ANOTHER CHANCE EVERYONE DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE BUT I GUESS IF YOU THINK SHE CANT BE LOYAL AND NOT CHEAT THEN IM SORRY THEN YOU WILL I HAVE TO LET HER GO OH MAYBE YOU JUST NEED TO FIND A NEW WOMAN BUT THEN AGAIN DID SHE CHEAT BECAUSE YOU WERE NT GIVING HERE THE ATTENTION SHE WAS SUPPOSE TO BE GIVING HER .WELL JUST THINK ABOUT IT
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yea i feel Ur pain but believe me u will get over it, i know it sounds as if i am being inconsiderate but i was in your place. at first it was hard, and difficult to let people in as well as to trust them and even today i have trouble with that yet lucky i found someone and he too was cheated on yet we manage overcome it. but believe me it was not easy, yet i know you can do it just be carefully and be precocious with who your with.

cheat back nothing is better then revenge, remember what is good for on is good for the other

I think you should forget or think of better girls you meat besides her. or party. or find a new girl on line think about it

I'm so sorry. I don't know that you can ever feel better or the same way about her again. cheating is like stealing from a friend or lying to God, it's just plain bad and would be so hard to forgive and you will never forget it. I was cheated on and tried for 5 more years to stay with my partner, and tried so hard to get over it and I never could. It got easier but I never trusted the person ever again, and that eventually made the love dissappear. I'm really sorry.



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