my wife is busy persn,.should i satisfy my libido else where or not?

You can use ur hand Perhaps you need to be more affectionate and appreciative in general, then she might want to return the favor. I'm not a lot of help here since I like to do it at least daily, but I know some women use sex as a tool and if they aren't getting what they want then they won't give you what you want.

If you love your wife and respect your marriage, then no, you should not satisfy your libido anywhere else but with your own two hands :)

When she's not home, check out some good ole porn on the net..there's something for everyone..:-)

If you don't want to cheat on her, get yourself one of those "fleshlights" and enjoy the net porn
with it !

I would get an exchange. My last wife got to be that way toward the end and I slowly sank into depression. She divorced me as a result and I moved in with an old friend, and now things couldn't be better. Be a litlle bit understanding will you. She is working? Are you working or not?

For sure, she is getting very tired at work, and I assure you that sex will be the last thing on her mind. You should try to be more understanding, and put her in relaxation mood when she is home. Rub her, massage her etc.

Let's put this another way, what if you were a working person, and are getting home too tired and can not think of sex. Will you find it fair that your wife goes and satisfies her libido somewhere else? Don't think so.

I'm a working man, and I can imagine how she feels when she gets home. Take it easy on her, have her relax. Go somewhere special in the weekends, and most importantly because surely she will like it - massage her, rub her and make her feel special. You never know, maybe she gets her interest back. Well .marriage is a sacred connection, when marrying your wife you made a promise to stay faithful to her, so to go and satisfy yourself with other people is really not what marriage is about. Since you feel youre not getting what you want, and you have talked ot your wife about this there is not much else you can do. So in the end you need to satisfy yourself..it wont hurt anyone and you wouldn't be cheating on your wife. Sex is not a need.its a want..remember that. Also its all about comprimise, trust your wife and tell her this is something you really want, maybe a comprise can be achieved, she knows youre a man and you have a high sex drive. Maybe you can do something for her once a week and she can offer her services to you once a week.

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