How do I stop of my habit of masturbation ? I am not able to quit it.?

Question:

It is it very harmful to health ? Is it a sin I am doing ?

Answers:
It's not bad for your health. It wont make you go blind or have hairy palms or make your thing smaller or any of that other crap. As for the sin thing, each religion has its own teachings, so it's basically whatever you believe, but I don't believe it is wrong. It simply releases tension.

Where it would become a problem, is if it consumes most of your free time, or it is controlling your life. Like, if you've called off work (or not gone to school) to stay home and beat it, thats excessive. If you have no other interests, or it interferes with other activities you once enjoyed, that's when it might become a problem.
On the other hand, if you like to rub one out before you go to sleep at night or when you wake up with morning wood, that's no problem. its healthy and natural and perfectly harmless.

You will go to hell as from the KORAN

Oh! Beat your meat like it owes you money!
That always made me laugh. It was off of Chapelles Show!

It is not harmful to your health.

It is considered to be a sin by some but not all religions

As long as you keep it private, no problem. It's when you start doing it in public that it might become a hazard to your health.

it doesnt affect ur health

wen you mastrebate ur not hurting anyone and ur makin ur self fell good, i dnt think its a sin

Everyone does it and it relieves tension. Why stop?

To masturbate more than ten times a day is unhealthy. To masturbate in a public place is sinful. I hope this helped!

Use lots of lube and find a Woman who will do it for you. Now clean up that mess ..

its not harmful but to stop get a man

rotflmao it wont kill ya ,,, but next time you do it just think of your mother or grandma catching in the act maybe that will make you stop

If you read th ebible you will be hard pressed to see whare masturbation is even mentioned let alone salled sinful. MAsturbation is only a sin in the eyes of those who are too prudish to want others to enjoy themselves.

Neither is masturbation harmful to health. Aside from feelign good, releasing the fluids that build up inside you anyway and reducing the risk of prostate cancer, there are no harmful side effects.

Of course if you masturbate so much that your school work falls behind, your social life is nonexistent and you don;t live an active life, then you need to reduce from doign it a hundred times a day down to 2 or 3. Other than that, enjoy yoru penis and your little self pleasures secure in the knowledge it is actually good for you and you will not go to hell for masturbating.

The majority of boys have tried this at least once in their life.It's not harmful for the health proper but it can affect your psychic ,your soul if you want!There will be a feeling of frustration and it 'd be better for you to start your sexual life(if you're big enough.hope you're not a kid)or start going to gym and have healthy activities.go out with friends .do everything keeps your hands occupied outdoors,let's say!

It does not help if you intend to have sex with a girl.

you dont have to stop if you like it .its isnt harmful or a sin thats ridiculous! its your body~you can lighten up & give yerself permission to enjoy

Why do you want to quit the habit of masturbation? It is NOT harmful medically speaking. Is it a sin. I don't know about that. I can only answer medical questions, but not theological questions. Please consult your religious leaders.

It's Normal, Healthy and Okay to Masturbate!

Masturbation can be defined as self-stimulation to cause sexual sensations. The use of the word masturbation usually suggests that the person is manipulating his or her genitals to the point of intense pleasure or orgasm. (Orgasm refers to a period of intense excitement in which genital muscles enter in to a series of highly-pleasurable contractions or movements).
While masturbation can involve another person, most of us think of it as a very private act. According to some health care providers masturbation allows a healthy way to express & explore your sexuality and to release sexual tension without all the associated risks of sexual intercourse. Health professionals generally agree that this private touching is a natural, normal mode of self-exploration and sexual expression. Unfortunately, after the excitement of the moment has passed, many people find themselves filled with guilty and or shame.

Why all this guilt and shame? Actually, from American History.

A little bit of American History:
Our attitudes about masturbation have deep roots for sure. Around the turn-of-the-century, some adults were so against masturbation that they forced their daughters to wear gloves made of a steel-wool-like material (like Brillo pads) at night and to put a powder on their genitals that made them painful to touch. They made their sons wear metal chastity belts at night that made it painful to have an erection. During the 1820s male masturbation was prevented by piecing the foreskin with a wire and soldering the ends together. Boys and girls were discouraged from masturbation by the threat of blindness, madness and illness. Of course, all of these are not true.

Of course, the subject of masturbation was taboo years before the United States was created. All kinds of chastity belts and other devices were used to prevent masturbation, probably as far back in history as you can go. This will vary from culture to culture.

The Truth?
Most surveys suggest that approximately 94% of teenage males "admitted" that they masturbated and about 70% of teen females "admitted" to this also. It’s always hard to establish absolute truth in any survey on sexuality and sexual behavior, since they are influenced so much by what people think is "normal". It is important to note the word "admitted" in the results of these surveys. Doesn't that word imply something shameful about the act of masturbating? We think so. This leads us to believe that we are still suffering from the residual Victorian morals when boys and girls were discouraged from masturbating.

Teaching Masturbation -- you asked? Yes, Believe it or Not!

In the 1970's and 1980's, a woman named Betty Dodson,Ph.D., achieved much fame from her approach to masturbation. She actually held classes for women to teach them how to masturbate. She thought that in order for women to overcome certain degrees of repression that she believed were instilled by the church, women needed to learn how to "celebrate" their bodies. She made the point that masturbation needed to be celebrated, and not allowed to create guilt. She admitted that overcoming guilt was very difficult -- for men & women, especially when the guilt was instilled by the voice of their mothers at an early age. Mother's told children not to touch themselves "down there" and wow, what an embarrassment if the child did that in public!

For many people the consequence of our mothers' or fathers' difficulty with our innocent sexuality when we were toddlers and infants may be the reason that the experience and enjoyment of our own bodies is taken away from us, or we are still allowed (made) to feel ashamed in some way when we feel pleasure from exploring our own bodies.

Even More Taboo.
In 1994 Dr. Jocelyn Elders - the first woman appointed to the position of U.S. Surgeon General lost her job as Surgeon General because she dared to say that masturbation should actually be taught in schools. We think her mistake was when she said, "It's practicing for sex" . She never implied that a method of masturbation be taught. or did she?

Masturbation Myths -- There Are Lots More of Course.

"Masturbation isn't "real sex" and only losers masturbate."
Just not true. According to some sexuality experts people who masturbate tend to function better sexually when with a partner since they know their own body and have fulfilled sexual expression.

If you masturbate you will go blind or bald or get acne or hair on your hands -- or lots of other anomalies. None of these have any basis in truth.

People in relationships or married don't masturbate.
Wrong again. (Many couples masturbate mutually).

"Masturbation will stunt your growth"
Nice try, but wrong again.

“If you masturbate you'll never be able to have children”
I get this question as an e-mail often, this is just not true, who started this myth? If that was true none of us would be on this planet.

“Can masturbation hurt me?”
(See the Sex FAQ page for the answer).

None of these myths are true. And while there will always be those who make religious or moral arguments against masturbation -- if you are Catholic you may have been taught that it is “sinful to spill seed” or masturbation is “seed wasted”. So, that is something you will have to decide for yourself. When done in moderation, masturbation seems to be a common, "normal", healthy way to get sexual satisfaction. It is one that is safe and does NOT run the risks of pregnancy, STDs or incompatible sexual preferences. But, use good sense while masturbating. If you are sore from spending TOO much time with yourself -- stop and let your body heal. Getting irritated skin is not uncommon, so don't panic and use plenty of water soluble lubrication next time. (Like Astroglide ® or Wet ®). If irritation persists see your health care provider. Remember, lubrication! Especially you guys (or gals using a vibrator).

If you are spending a lot of your time masturbating and it is interfering with your school work, your job, or the rest of your life, then you might want to stop and think about why you are doing it so much. A person can become obsessed with anything.

See the how to masturbate page for women if need be. A guide for beginners or for those who have never explored.

Are there benefits to masturbation?
Yes. Masturbation can help relieve stress and:
Relieve menstrual cramps
Help for insomnia (i.e. when a person is having trouble falling asleep)
Stimulate the immune system to help build up resistance to common infections.
Release mood elevating hormones
Reduce embarrassing spontaneous erections for teen males
Reduce the number of unwanted wet dreams for young men

For more on Male or Female Orgasm, see Male Orgasm or Female Orgasm. For recommended reading on masturbation, see Female Orgasm. There are more sexuality links in there also.

For more on Sexual Health, check out the Sexual Health Library

See the Sexual FAQ Pages for more answers about masturbation.

For more on lubricants, see Lubricants - a masturbation must!

Your Vagina; Get to know it Better!

For honest answers about orgasms, sexual health, STDs and birth control, with hundreds of FAQs. See Sex Stuff

The following article is informative, written by a doctor, check it out, it probably answers a lot of your questions: Masturbation Q & A, by Donald E. Greydanus, MD

Grab a bottle of champagne, lie in the jacuzzi and let go. It's not a sin and it's healthy.

Self control, I used to jerk it a lot to between ages of 13-20,like most normal guys, cuz thats the main phase of puberty when your horny all the time. Theres nothing wrong with busting one, but don't make it the priority in your life. Everyone says its a sin, but screw them. Because if you don't masturbate you can still get wet dreams, when you bust a nut in your sleep, and still killing sperm. If you don't masturbate the sperm just breaks down and goes back into your body because you have fresh sperm maid. If your 20+ just use some self control, and keep it to a few times a week.

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