What was the most stressful event in your life?
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When I was working in Nigeria, I watched my driver beaten to death, then had a kalishnikov shoved in my face, and was told to leave my briefcase and F.off. Walking away waiting to be shot in the back was pretty stressfull, actually the whole incident was pretty stressfull. I left the country the next day and would NEVER go back.
the last 4 years.
Mom's sudden death.
Being a parent.
Telling my Mum who is 92, that her eldest son had died.
Seeing my then husband with another woman and finding out she was pregnant when he had only left 2 months ago and just 2 weeks prior he told me he MIGHT come home.
becoming a mum
getting bullied in school
Being the mother of a 14 year old Freshman girl!
Starting a new job, while breaking up with fiance, while moving, and trying to find a new car.
being told i could have leukaemia and i was actually anaemic
Watching my mother die.
she died from cancer but she insisted on in home care and to die at home so we made it happen.
I watched her die.
It changed me forever.
The last 38 years of my life (I am 38) you would not believe the stuff I have been through.
When my business suffered a setback, and my dreams were shattered, but then.. life goes on
My parents getting divorced
My husband was having an affair with his ex-girlfriend, in my home while I was at work. He filed for divorce thinking he wanted to be with her. I had to move and take my two children with me. We ended up working it out and when he broke it off with her, she started harassing me, telling me details of the affair, the mattress pattern on my bed, how she like my decor taste and how her child slept in my child's bed when we were not home. Top it off she then claimed to be pregnant. It was a nightmare for someone like me who loved my husband more than life itself. I pray to never have to deal with a situation like that again.
Finding out I had the leading cause of sudden death in young adults & had to have a defibrillator implanted. Life goes on ... thankfully. Out of adversity can come such riches! The light at the end of the tunnel isn't necessarily the oncoming train ...
Sitting on the stool and only farting
trying to immigrating to Europe from Morocco on a Little sharp
It kind of pales into insignificance after reading some of those entries, but moving house, getting married and going abroad for work during the same week was quite stressful.
As was losing the chance to pursue my dreams of being in a band during the same week that my dad got cancer.
My divorce from my controling husband of 25 years. I was terrified and had the locks changed the minute I came home from the attorney's office. He was so controling that ten years after the divorce he thought he had the right to tell me what I could and couldn't have when I moved out of what had been our home. To this day he still tries to control me. I still fear him even though I am remarried to a really nice man.
My relative's suicide two months ago. I feel like I have a huge black empty hold in my heart that will never be covered up again.
reaching level 2 by ere
As CEO of a large labour force of 5000 workers and 24 officers besides a labour union consisting of 18 politically affiliated parties at my level and me reporting to 4 functional Director's and a Chairman *** Managing Director over me:
1) I had to plan my production myself.
2) I had to show profits.
3) I had to maintain good relations with officers & union Leaders.
4) Maintain over 500 machines in working order.
5) Keep no inventry of Finished Goods.
6)Standards in quality of products manufactured.
7)Purchase as per procedure laid down by Head Office.
8)Compete in prices of my products with others.
9)Product Diversifiction.
10) Govt controls.
11) Bank restrictions on my cash needs.
12) Labour problems in day to day work.
Many other minor problems like- safety-fire - accidents-clendlyness etc.
Last but not the least take care of my family.and attend to many things that comes with out notice.
ALL THIS WAS VERY STRESSFUL EVENTS IN MY LIFE.
Spending the last 3 years in an extremeley competitive medical program, where people would backstab each other permanently . They would steal each other's notebooks and throw them away for fear of someone else getting the best grades. I was on the verge of depression because I wasn't being treated like a human being anymore, but was being called names just for excelling at something I liked doing and was good at. Fortunately, I met my current boyfriend during that time, and through the love and strength he has given me, I am now able to deal better.
my new born babys problems when he was born and being told he only had 30% change of servival, thats stress, i had a constant head ache a mouth full of abcesses and couldn't sleep. STRESS. hes ok luckily he puleed through :)
The birth of my son, it had a mirage of complications and
lasted 22 hours.
when i found out serval years ago my grandson was drinking and trying drugs. i just had no idea that he would do this.
selling and buying my new home,
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