Im really worried about my friends, how do I deal with them all?
Question:
My other friends girlfriend may have gotten raped, and now hes started cutting again. I'm losing all my decent, once stable friendships, and I don't know who to trust anymore because most people are just after sex.
I don't know how to help my friends, control them all and comfort them without them getting drunk and starting more fights about me with eachother (which they do) and as I don't drunk I am never there to prevent it.
It's really stressfull and I'm making myself sick trying to sort it all out. I even fainted today at school. What can I do?! I can't tell anyone at home, and my friends are the actual problem!
Answers:
hi my friend!
these r not ur friend's problem.
this is ur problem in choosing whom u wanna be with.
ur friends r mature enuf to do wht they want.and advicing them is just wasting time,specialy if they r more than 17.
if u really like to have the nice,healthy relation with ur friends, try to have 1 friend but mature and decent 1, to recognice that if she /he is good enuf to continue ,is not a hard job.
be somewhere that they give u more maturity , u can learn sth from them, and the full time is just having fun, and solving the problems.
dont be with the friends that all of them r doing wrong and always greedy to do worst thing.
change the enviroment,change ur friends :)
Other Answers:
Find new friends.
Best bet: joing a club or a new hobby that will take up some of your time so you can get a break from your friends. In the mean time: you may make some new friends.
You also learn something new in the process.
If you know that a crime has been committed you should go to the police (for your own piece of minds and really to protect your friends from getting hurt or even killed). Do you have school councellor to speak to?
for one are they really your friends? I believe they need help before someone dieds. You have to make a big dicesion if you want to remain friends and keep them alive talk to them and if they don't starighten out then you make the next step either leave them alone and or tell someone what their up too. It's a hard choice to make but you keep yourself safe first. Good luck
friends are either
1. SINKS( and they drain you dry)
or
2.WELLS (they replenish you and fill you with energy or inspiration)
If you have ONLY 1's then you need to find more 2's.
Its that simple ..
hi there sweetheart. what a considerate person you are. i'm afraid that sometimes people don't want to be helped, after all you can't FORCE them to change ! they might one day wake up and sort themselves out. they are a bit too wrapped in whats going on with themselves than to see what you 're going through because of them! . YOU have to do whats right for you!! pull yourself out of this pitt and start to LIVE! Life is not a rehearsal, this is IT. if a situation is not right get out of it! . you have the satisfaction of knowing that you at least tried to do something about it. i'm sorry it's now time to ditch this excess baggage . you really can make something of yourself and you WILL find friends who genuinely care about you . i promise!. life is too short to be to be dragged down like this. i'm sorry to be harsh but they are holding you back. you could get involved in some kind of sport or hobby anything that interests you to take you away from this awful situation. take courage and GO for it.
find some professional help and they will be saved then they will and you feel so much better
Think of number one first and thats YOU. Tell a teacher or someone else you feel you could trust and who could deal with it better and in the mean time start concentrating on yourself.
get new friends. You dont need everyone elses problems cause you probably have enough of your own, and if they were true friends they wouldnt pile all this onto you and as for the cutting i do it and for me there is no way anyone can help it is a very personal thing so dont worry about that. You sound like a very caring person so you will have no problem finding new mates.
Good Luck
It sounds to me that YOU are feeling the guilty one - why??
Why cant you tell anyone at home? What are you afraid of
If you have not done anything wrong, when you have nothing to hide - if thats the case go and speak with your parents
Dont make yourself ill through the fault of others - it aint worth it
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