help my girlfriend!?
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It's not something you should attempt to deal with on your own.
If she's not ready to let go of the eating disorder, which is her current way of coping, she will likely be uncooperative, defensive, and resent you for trying to "help".
If she agrees to see her doctor, you have no way of knowing if she will be completely honest. You can approach your own doctor, a counselor, psychologist, or look for an eating disorder clinic in your area and follow their guidance and advice.
If she's not interested in seeking help, often help will come to her. There are trained professionals who will visit an unwilling person's home, talk with them there, and come up with a plan together.
You need to remove yourself from this situation or it will come between you. You don't want her to feel like you are forcing her to do something or she may feel controlled by you, which is not a good way to start a marriage. You should also consider putting your relationship on "pause" until she is successfully dealing with this issue.
She needs to face this head on, but with your support. by her side, not dragging her by the hand.
Step back and let trained professionals help.
You need only be the one to encourage her, not the one to "fix" her.
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Get a doctor to see her, and if need be, get her hospitalized. This is a medical condition
Do whatever it takes, and be there for her until this is finished, at least. She needs you now, and you should be tough.
Also, hold off the marriage until she is better. This might hurt you both, but she's not in a very stable condition right now. Wait until the doctor (NOT her) says she's better.
Looks like you have your work cut out for you, good luck!
get her help
Take her to a treatment center for bulimics. Make sure there aren't any other health issues. It could be your buggy eyes Bart. LOL
Oh geeeeez.. Why do you kids nowadays wanna get hooked up with the head cases?
Take her to the doctor or phsycolist..
talk to her and assure her that you love her and that you dont want her to hurt herself and that you want to help her get some help for her
Hold her hair for her when she's bent over the toilet.
she has an eating disorder,needs a good therapist
She has a serious problem, try helping her and taking her to eat a lot and buy her food all the time..make sure she doesn't run to the bathroom afterwards, or talk to her about seeing a doctor.
U NEED TO GET HER PROFESSIONAL HELP HAVE U EVER WATCHED INTERVENTION CUZ SHE NEED HELP FAST CUZ SHE COULD HURT HERSELF N U TO
HAVE A GREAT DAY
Get her help and you should learn how to spell.
Get an education.. your spelling is probably making her sick
take her to get help from a doctor or the hospital.
tell her that shes pretty all the time
She definently needs medical help. It is a psychological issue that she has. But she needs reinforcement from you and to feel that she is beautiful in all ways. She has self image issues.
She has severe eating disorder. It can either be chemical (metabolic or digestive-tract disorders) or psycho-sematic, which is a combination of low self-esteem, over-sensitive nature, social environment and physical condition. Such disorders go by several names---buleimia or some other form. Best course is to take her to a doctor immediately and get her condition diagnosed so that she can be treated by the right physician.
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