back on the alcoholic with alnon do they help with us dealing with the alcoholic and help us not to feel that?

it is our problem. i mean when they tell us that they drink cause of us. cause they think they are in love with us and we dont want to be with them sort of like a controlling factor. will it help us with our feeling we are in bondage or quilty cause of their drinking. i mean all the emotional abuse that they put us through will it help with that? and also the physical abuse for all the years even though that stopped and it became mental abuse? will it help with that? and if so where can i get to one? and man why havent i known about this resource years ago i went through over 11yrs of physical to emotional to mental abuse the physical stopped when i put him in jail then the emotional rollerercoaster to mental torment. he maybe changing ,but i believe i have been damaged. well he tries not to drink when around me. he doesnt live with me, but when i take our son over there to him and his mom, who he stays with then he tries not to.i try to be nice so he wont give them hell. i am tired.

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You have gotten some great advice. Al Anon is good for you, they help you to see you have nothing to be guilty of.You or your son does not cause him to drink that's his choice, but to justify their problem they blame those around them it's called control. I've been in your child's place and it is not healthy. Leave him to himself and his Mother take care of yourself and your son now. You both deserve it... Look in the phone book for them and get information for the one closest to you. God Bless you and your child.

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ive been down the road your on, my advise is to leave him and get on with your life, unless you like the way you live right now.

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