Hardest Love Question.Help..?

Question:

well heres how the story goes one day i met a girl at my cousins house we started talking and we felt like whoa we were just alike and we connected with no intetions of goin out we later talked about it she said she would but she had a boyfriend...turns out the boyfriend is my cousins girlfriend[lesbian couple]and this girl is the sister of my cousins partner[gf]...so she tells me that she would and that she wishes she could...the problem is,is that if she breaks up with him he gets all crazy and wants to figt the next bf.and when she tries to do it also my cousin and her girlfriend[her sister] are making her stay with him!!like they are practilly brainwashing her by telling her that thats her true love and that even tho they have nothing in common,they supposably belong together,she tries and tries and they even tell her not to talk to me even as a friend because they dont want any drama between me and her bf,but now she broke up with him and we love eachother,wat should we do? <3

Answers:
16 has to one of the hardest times for kids. If you really like her, tell her. If her former bf threatens you, tell your parents. they may get in touch with his parents. I did this more than once with my kids. Oftentimes the ex is just all mouth and afraid of confrontation. They talk like bullies and threatened, but when it comes down to it, some, not all, will walk away. He sounds like he is very controlling over this girl. Don't fight him...I don't believe that's a way to solve anything. Words can be a powerful tool if you use them right. Speak with this girl and ask her if she still has feelings for the other guy or is she just afraid of what he might do to her if she refuses to see him anymore. This is a tough situation. Be careful. I was in an abusive marriage many years ago and I was afraid if I left or threw him out, he would try to harm me. As it turned out. he did try. Anyway, just talk to this girl and see what she feels about this guy. You just may be her knight in shinning armor. lol. Good luck, I hope all goes well for you.

well i think you guys should talk about what your next step is going to be (if that hepls) well when me and my husband got married we decided to tralk stuff over before our wedding and take out everything we hadden told each other so if it hepls express yourfellings in a healthy way and keep it simple not too dramatic so things wont go wrong so just tell her everything get to know each other and umm well she should express her feelings too as well as you so no secrets and stuff could be between you guys so good luck with her and treat her right

oh easy! go out! if you aren't willing to stand up to this guy, you aren't in love. and plus, if you don't, he might convince her to go back out with him and she'll be stuck in that relationship all over again. But don't fight the boyfriend though. That's just childish and you need to act mature about this, you need to either force him away by words or physically, but not get into a brawl. good luck!

RUN, RUN, RUN! If ever there was a sick situation, this is it. Back off until it all settles down, and call the police if the guy threatens you, or her.

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