Can you answer my question regarding sex?
Question:
I'm physically challenged and weigh less than 100 pounds.
I'm also 97% deaf. Yes, as embarrassed I am to say, I'm a virgin at age 25.
Now, I have been encountering sexual feelings since the age of 18, and I've been trying my best to accomplish a girl's heart. Unfortunately, I remain unfortunate.
It's not how I approach girls why I can't find one, it's because of my ill situation; nobody wants to date a handicap.
My sexual feeling has developed so high that I can't even bare it anymore. Yes, I do the regular thing, which is, you know, the hand job, but it is driving me insane.
I went to join the handicap group, but everyone of those handicaps have serious problems. They do not motivate like normal healthy people. I am sorry to say this, but most of them are stupid, at least those I met. I can't stand it.
I am not looking strictly for sex, I wish I had a partner, but I need to have sex, too.
My question is: What can I do about this?
Answers:
i am disabled too but i have a boyfriend of 9 years. you should try one of the dating services out there and see if you can find someone that way. do you have a church you attend?
you will find someone who overlooks your handicap and will fall in love with your personality just don't push the sex issue and it will happen. believe it or not there are woman out there that are caring enough to be with someone with a handicap. and being deaf isn't a great big deal there are tons of people who are deaf and married and even people with no arms or no face that are happy with someone wait it out and someone will discover the you deep down inside just don't push to hard or you will push them away. I wish you the best!!
Sexual desire is a tension which can be relieved in other ways than orgasm. I understand you are hurting. I have raised three sons, and taught them that this tension can be relieved by just about any physical activity. As you have physical challenges, i don't know what to suggest. If you cannot run, or engage in any heavy activty of a physlical nature, just some aerobics to a good piece of lively music can help. Focus on something other than sex while you are exercising...think about something other that is pleasant. It may sound silly, but i was told to share this with my sons by a very wise gentleman when i was a single mom, and frantic to help my son who had feelings like you do. the man who advised me was actually a pastor.
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