Whats your cure for a broken heart?
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there is no cure. Keeping busy helps but really you need time to get use to the pain or, someone, something to replace it with.
keep yourself busy doing things you enjoy the doing the most , do all the girlie things , shop , go out partying , spend time with your family . at least you no you gonna see him again consentrate on that ,, good luck x
time helps..
chocolate
exercise
go out an find another man x
Time is the only healer.
I had a similar problem last year, i jus wrote big a** e-mails to my girl everyday, and called her every now and then, and after a while things got better.
A heart transplant.
Time will lessen the blow, when I am waiting, I use a trick to work with my sadness, I set a timer, and allow myself an hour or two to be sad, play sad music, write, cry, be angry what ever, I also burn a candle, scented but when ever the time is up, I have to "leave it" I change the tone of the music to something a little positive, and more upbeat, and in 5 to 10 minutes, am brushing myself off, and doing something different. like getting happy.
Sounds crazy but it really works.,
fun
'All the lonely people, where do they all belong?' Whatever you do ,don't think of that song by the Beatles. A girlfriend of mine left to go back to Germany some years ago and I heard that song as I was tearfully leaving Heathrow airport. It broke my heart. (Things got better)
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This worked for me. Put on the first Bridget Jones dvd. Have a good bottle of wine, sing your heart out to 'All by myself' fall flat on your nose,eat a whole bar of your favourite chocolate, Dream about Colin Firth or Hugh Grant whichever one rings your bell. Clive Owen does it for mexxxx Cry until you can't squeeze another tear out, ring all your mates and sob down the phone to them as well no matter what time of day it is! regardless of whether they listen or not. If they won't listen give the Samaritans a go [I did]. Next day you will feel a little better and have 'All by myself' stuck in your head forever. lol
take lots with alcohol
Rebbie, you're not even old enough to know if "time" heals or you weren't in love enough. Time does ~help~ but a scar is a scar, it'll always be there... sad huh?
Distraction is what you need girl ! Major disctraction... You may not feel like it, but go out somewhere... a concert, a party, even a bar... just go! Now...
anti-depressents?
I don't know. Eating ice cream
out of the carton always works for me.
its always hard when summit ends. but nothin is for ever u have had a chapter in your life closed, its now up to you to open another, work for a short time is a relief but not a cure. i agree that u need another hobbie, join a group and make new friends time moves on and so will you, good luck and keep your chin upxxxxxxxxx
1.Go early to bed alone.
2.Find someone else
3.Go out with some friends and talk about it.
It's difficult to heal that sometimes it never heals like my last boyfriend before I was married.
The one (I'm still grateful to him) who helped me over him was in love with me (but I did not know!), I only found that out when I was already married and saw him, if he only told me that time but he did not, someone else told me.
HI
sorry about the b/f !
when same thing happened i went back on aol to talk to ppl
and ended up being like a part-time counsellor to loads of ppl, young and old., but my problems were still there in my head, i was recommended to buy music from a band called Winger , the cd is called "in the heart of the young " which i played loads way back then, i also bought this cd from Dokken named " under lock and key " i'm not sure if these bands are going now, but both of these bands did a series of cds that were all on the sublect of a broken heart.
Now this is what i used to help me, also i refused to listen to loads of slushy love songs on the radio or my cds, so no Celine Dion and hello stuff like Meatloaf and similar artists that were heavy.
Also if possible go on holiday asap [ you need it !] and go out loads with friends/family but no men ! 1 thing you don't want is being caught on the rebound, good luck.
Keep yourself busy..work is a good distraction...volunteer, pick up the pace on any hobby you have and if you dont have one, get one !! Go out with family and friends, etc. There will be alone times for you that make you focus on things more, but the old saying "time heals all wounds" is very true.
I don't know
My hearts never been there to have been broken in the first place
I guess it's just the way that things go
Never been in a relationship
But on a sort of semi-same-yet-different topic my hearts not even complete anyway at the moment, it gets ripped up by friends and family non stop..
Keep busy, do things you enjoy. Spend time with friends and family rather than being alone. Plan ahead so you have things to look forward to.
GET DRUNK AND GET OVER IT. X
Get laid
cry alot eat some icecream go to a movie or for a walk go hug a kid
i do them all
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