Why does how you look matter?


Question:
If you fell in love with a very very good looking slim lady..and she gained alot of wait and ended up chubby..Would your relationship still have passion for eachother?

Answers:
No NO NO no NO...If i love someone..appearance does not matter...
Unless we have known each other for a very long time and have grown close and developed love for each other, I would drop her. I would tell her to lose weight.
yes i think it would still have passion because there still the person you fell in love with and weight gain doesnt happen over night it would be a slow change that you probly wouldnt notice
Well, I hope I won't even fall in love with any lady, but when I look at guys, appearence is just something that can attract me, but if the guy is handsome and an asshole, then he can go back where he came from.
i would still have passion for my girlfriend even if she put on 500 lbs, i love her with all my heart. looks may matter to begin with in many situations because it is a primal instinct, we are human but we still have some instincts like that. if some1 dumps you because you put weight on, then that person wasnt who you really wanted to be with. a true, loving relationship lasts through any hardship, or any change in the other's physical appearance

dumping some1 because they gained weight, or because they have extra weight is similar to dumping some1 because they got into a car accident and now have some sort of disability

all the best in your relationships
I know it sounds horrible, but think of her like your first brand new expensive car.

Just because it runs, is it not worth washing and detailing every now and then?

works both ways too...

If you car is very clean and pretty looking outside but you don't maintain it properly, it will not run right on the inside.

Your car needs to be taken care of in and out.
yes ofcourse.
When I was in grade 6 elementary educ, I had my hair look like Vanilla Ice's hairdo. Yeah, even his pants. Then when I graduated elementary I tried to re enroll in their high school department. but the Nun said to me that I better look for another school because my behavior is way out of normal.

When I was in 2nd year College, I again got kicked out of a Belgian Friar run University because I was in the Alternative /punk scene. They disliked what I wore and how I manage my hair and not shave my beard.

To finish college I had to do a make over. I basically imitated what my father wears. Polo shirts long or short, slacks, leather shoes, clean-shave, barber's cut hair, and the cologne I used was not just entry level. Anyway, I figured out that to be a success in this world right now you have to look neat.
Apparently yes because I used to be good looking and then put on a lot of weight. When you know what someone is like on the inside it shines through and makes them more attractive on the outside also.
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