What do you do after work at 6.30 p.m?
Question:
i don't know what's there to do after coming back from work . I have some friends , but i am going thru some shi##t right now i can't even think straight . After getting out from work at 6.30 i feel so sad and bored and depressed , i go for a ride myself somewhere . i just got out from a relationship ,Why it hurts so much is because i didn't want anyone till i was atleast a litle more older. But i trusted her to be there forever and she left ( cuz of family problems ) . Now i feel so alone . what are some things that i can do or you do , after work to cheer you up ?
please don't tell me to come home . because there is noone home i can really talk to . or do anything with . We don't talk .
What can i do to forget everything , atleast for a while?
Answers:
Pull your pants down, sit on the copier and xerox copies of your bare butt.
Sounds to me like you are experiencing some depression. You really should get some help to deal with this problem. There are a lot of places to seek help, a counsler or therapist, a good friend or a minister. Just please,. talk! It's the best way to get over someone who has hurt you.
If that's not what your looking for then try joining a local group such as a bowling league, do volunteer work or join a gym. If you fell that you need to say busy then find a hobby.
There are a lot of things to do, you just have to look!
Good luck to you, I hope you feel better soon.
Here is some advice from my mother, when she was still here to give it.. "This too shall pass."
It's true. Getting through the heartache of losing a girlfriend is tough, it's why they call it heart-breaking. But I can tell you that down the road, in 6 months, it will be a lot easier than it is today. In a year, you may be ready for another relationship. All the knowledge you gained from this past relationship will have made you stronger, and a little wiser.
There are women who want to wait until they are older before settling down and having a marriage or kids, but there are also some that want to do it at a younger age.
These are things you would casually discuss early in the relationsip, (not the first few dates). But if you want to have a family by age 30, for example, and she wants them at 40, well then wait for another woman. When I say wait, I mean you don't always have to be searching for a new mate. Sometimes one can just be a friend first, then it could blossom from there.
Also, it must have been truly hard for your g/f to break up, especially when it's her own family and they should be supporting her goals and dreams. But, she's not ready, so you can remain friends or break off all communication. You both will need to decide what's best. I'm sure there are feelings of confusion, anger, sadness. It's normal and we need those feelings to truly discover who we are and who we will become.
So please, know that it will get better, easier to deal with.
What to do now? Well, one of the best things you can do is concentrate on other people. Volunteer. There are a lot of organizations that would love to have you help out, from animal shelters to nursing homes, youth and environment. Focusing on those things will ease your pain and you will gain a sense of satisfaction.
You can also consider taking part time college classes. You are currently employed and some employers even pay for you to have continuing education classes.
If you have experience with a certain musical instrument you can teach younger kids, offer lessons. You can contact your local community education programs and may find connections there, or they can direct you on the right path. You can also consider taking college classes geared toward teaching music. Use your current income and job to work toward another career.
Ultimately, your career choice is yours, and yours alone. If you're not happy, go for something that will be rewarding.
I hope these suggestions will help you a bit. Most everyone has been through the same or similar things. It's hard.
Remember to take time for exercise. It releases endorphins, the feel good hormones. And finally, if you are in serious depression, talk to your doctor. You may do very well with an antidepressant for awhile. If you are concerned you may hurt yourself or others, then get into see a doc asap.
Best of luck!
oh honey look for another job if you doesn't want to go home i think there must be something you like to do go for it what are you waiting for. you said you want to do something related to music ok look for those things that you like look for something to keep really busy to not feel so sad or alone when a relationship is broken there is nothing to do just to keep going paint is part of life in a relationship i think everyone in this world had feel the paint of love keep going honey don,t even stop by to see why o how the thing happen try to find something you have time to do it after 6 you can go to your computer a check if you find someting about jobs or about something else that you like more. try to be happy life is only one and the time is running and don't stop to wait for us and also we get older please don't waste your time thinking in what to do. ok honey. take care bye
Sign up to volunteer and help others in your community, neighborhood, church or whatever .
I called our Park and Rec Center and volunteered to teach swim lesson as an example. There are various web sites that list needs fo volunteers -- they can be for a specific event of for a couple hours on a routine basis etc.
I also volunteered for several Special Olympics events which had a variety of different opportunities.
I feel helping others is a great gift not only to them but to yourself, and you get a chance to be appreciated, or learn new skills, or teach others, or to meet interesting people.
Even just a little thing to you can mean a LOT to someone else.
I hope you find something to transition you at this time.
Peace.
Sit in front of a playground and masturbate. This will result in you having lots of interesting companionship behind bars.
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