Why does my mom's death seem like a bad dream?
Question:
I live about 300 miles away from my dad and sisters and I call them almost everyday, a few times a day and I get the feeling that I call them too much. My husband seems to be tired of me talking about my mom already. I know that I must move on with life and that's what she would've wanted, but it all happened to quickly to me.
I checked the net to see if there maybe a bereavement support group in my area and I haven't had any luck. Do you know where else I may able to find one?
I've always heard that the death of a parent is rough, but nothing could've prepared me for this.
Answers:
denial is one of the stages of grief. it is normal. it has only been a week! you should be calling as much as you want, im sure your dad and sisters are having similar feelings. meybe you could go spend some time at home with your family and all of you could talk about her and tell stories. maybe make a memorial or some sort of tribute so that you can really acknowledge her. if she had a favorite place ( like a particular park or beach or a lake) you could go there either as a family or alone. it sounds weird but talk to your mom (or write) it might make you feel better and she can hear you. i am really sorry for your loss.
i just have to add that if your husband has already lost support of you in the time when you need him most then there is something seriously wrong with him...
take all the time you need. if you move on too fast it the grief will just come up in the future
I'm very sorry to hear this, I know I was there you can call a local hospital and explain what happened and they will steer you in the right direction for the proper people to talk to. hang in there you will get over this.
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