my new father in law is dying of Colin cancer, what can i do to help my new wife cope with the loss of him?

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all you can do is support her emotionally . be their for her and hold her alot, let her cry on your shoulder as much as she needs

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just support her. Help her make his last days great

thats really tough comfort her and thats all u really can do
have a great day

Just be there for her. My father died with cancer. I saw him take his last breath and it was hard; however, I was relieved that his pain was over. Time helps. She won't believe it at first, but it does,

be very supportive of your wife & father in law, they will both appreciate it.

I'm sorry. All you can do is be extra tolerant of her bad moods, listen when she needs to talk, and be there for her. IF you feel comfortable, and if he does, you might want to talk to your father in law. Some people have special ideas about how they want to go, and want their family to celebrate his life rather than be sad. maybe he wants to help make it easier for his fmaily. depends on the guy.

I'm very sorry to hear about your father-in-law. When my father passed away what I really needed/wanted more than anything was just to be held. Your presence, love and understanding will help her immensely. In short, it's not so much that you must say anything, but just be by her side. She will most likely be up and down for quite some time while she is grieving. God Bless!

My mother is struggling with the colin cancer as well. I know it's hard for my husband as well. We're fairly young, 25, and have only been married a couple of years. Just be there for her, encourage her to be with him as much as possible, it's a hard road, but try to get her to talk about it as much as possible. Go with her, when she visits him. She may be crabby, but just know it's not you, it's the stress of the situation. Let her cry, if she won't, make her cry about it. Also, if her family would rather you take care of some of the arrangements, please do so. It's so hard to think of the practical things when you are emotionally hurting. God bless you all.

you just need to be there for her and comfort her dontover power her though ask if she needs anything doing.and just show her that you love her.ive just found out my father in law has cancer so i will need to be there for my hubby..when the time happens

This will be the last chance to let him know that both of you love him and thankful for being a father if he can still know what you act or say. For the loss of a father , we all will go the same road one day and accepting the inevitable is the most practical and wise thing for all of us.

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